~b4 you start reading this...I just wanted to let everyone know that i stole this from someones blog bc i thought it made a really good point and i wanted to share this with you all
Love. Its when you c.a.r.e so much about one person that youd give up your happiness to make them happy. Its when youd literally DIE for them. Romeo and Juliet the love they had for one another was so great that they couldnt possibly exist if the other one was alive. Thats what im looking for.
Maturity..../. you cant possibly love someone until youve matured enough to love yourself. Part of growing up and loving is realizing that you might just have to stop being a lazy teenager- get your ass of the couch get a job and make some money. Yes you might ONLY be in high school and you live in a world full of tomorrows but you dont think about the future. THERE IS A LIFE AFTER HIGH SCHOOL LIVING OFF YOUR PARENTS
Grow the fuck up and realize this
WHO YOU ARE TODAY REFLEX WHO YOUR GOING TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP
Infatuation. DIFFERENCE, infatuation is not love. You THINK you are but your not. Your just obsessed. Passion to fuck that person is not love.
Communication. Feelings relations understanding everything in a relationship revolves around communication without communication its [NOTHING]. Having the same conversation is not COMMUNICATING its boring and is screaming WE HAVE NOTHING ELSE IN COMMON. Talking 24/7 about the great sex you had is NOT a healthy relationship. Yes even that can get boring.
So to all of you out there who think that love is based on whether or not the sex is good. THINK AGAIN because youve got a long way to before you GROW UP
The magic of the first love is our ignorance that it can never end
you fall in love once in your life. theres only ONE match for each person. no matter how hard you try you cant FORCE love. its their or it isnt. the HARDEST part is letting go of something you WANTED to be the love but was only caring. i cant tell you how hard ive worked to change that dream to reality but it only worked for a little while and then evyerthing fell apart .
you cant MAKE someone respect you or want to do evyerthing they can to make you happy. you have to find that person who WANTS to be unselfish and meet you half way .
listen to your head not your heart. your heart will only get you introuble
