live ur life on purpose , not by accident. the past -it's over with and should be nothing but a fading memory . the future-it simply hasn't happened yet and things you do today .no. are likely to have an impact on that future .don't compare your present situation to anything else-accept it for what it is and make the most of it -or decide to take action now if it is not the present you want. acknowledgethat nothing wil improve unless you do something about it .be happy . don't wait for events or other people to make you happy . have some fun!! start enjoying your life-now ,today .start doing things you enjoy or try something different. keep your sense of humour, your sense of fun . think ' this is my day of opportunity!! -every day ! seize and enjoy every moment. every morning is a fresh beginning . what are you waiting for .