Ok... here's what you need to know before you try to get in a relationship with me.
(1) Know that I hate, I mean absolutly hate not being called back. It shows me that not only do you not give a shit that I called, but it shows me that you don't want to talk to me.
(2) If I get upset about something because of you or something you did then you need to talk to me about it NOW you need to talk about it with me WHEN it happens. Don't wait to talk about it, I'll get even more mad.
(3) I get hurt easily, I feel neglected easily, and when it happens I need to feel loved. That may just mean a simple "I miss you", "I care about you", "You mean a lot to me" anything just to make me feel like I matter to you.
(4) Going along with that I need to feel like I matter to you. I need to feel like you want me. More then just sexually I need to feel like you want to talk to me/be with me.
(5) Respect is HUGE to me... Think aobut it like this you don't want to see a man swear at your mother, hit your mother, or disrespect your mother. If you don't want to see a man do that shit to your mom don't do it to me.
(6) I have a back breaking schedule and 1/2 of that is because I try SO hard to please everyone that I need to and because I put my whole heart into everything I do because I want to do everything I put my name on RIGHT.
(9) Adding onto that this is the reason I don't fuck around when it comes to relationships. The man I decide to date is a direct representation of me, therefore I refuse to look stupid in that relationship. Yes I do admit that I have made some bad decisions when it came to my relationships. The man I thought I was in "love" with was abusing me physically and emotionally. But I was young(15-17) and I thought I was in love so I put up with it all for too long. Now I refuse to let anyone else bring me down. I will do right by myself. Now, I realize that every man I date will NOT be "the one" but I treat every relationship as if it had that potential. Everyone deserves to be treated the same until they prove me otherwise.
(10) NOW with that being said... YOU ARE REPLACABLE. If you make the decision to hurt me, neglect me, mistreat me, whatever I WILL find a man who will love me truly and you will see me walk away from you.
I think I'm done, with all that on the table. NOW after I say all this, I can request these things because I DO THESE THINGS. I treat every man I'm with, with the most respect (until he disrespects me), I make him feel like I need him/care about him (until he hurts me), I return phone calls, and I give him all I can (until he proves to me that he doesn't deserve it anymore)
