So, let me first start out by saying this statement:
"Friends are people that you help when they are in need."
Is this a true statement? I've been inclined to believe this. I have friends, people that I consider true friends, that I would do anything in my power for, and I know they would do the same for me. Those are the people that I can confide in when I need it. Those are the people who I know I can trust with personal information and my secrets. Those are also the people who I have the most respect for. Out of these people who I consider friends, 99% of the time, and whoever knows me know this, all that I usually ask for in return is respect. Is that too much to ask? Occasionally I do ask for help, but only if I really need it. On the occasion that I do ask for help (and usually it's very small, especially on Fubar), I more or less do expect it. Is that wrong of me? I don't think it is.
Ok, so I rambled on a bit, but let me give a bit of background information on this subject. There was a girl on Fubar who I did consider to be a good friend of mine. Her and I talked all the time, I helped her when she needed it, never asked for anything in return. Now, the ONE time that I ask her for ANYTHING, which in this case is fubucks for me to get spotlight, she can't do it? She said that if I blinged her, she would pay me in fubucks. If I bought her a VIP when hers ran out, she would pay me in fubucks. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind doing things like that for people at all, when I have the money, but to automatically assume that I'm obligated to do that? It's crazy. I was the one who leveled her from pretty much level 10 to level 21. I helped her boyfriend level. Over HALF of the bling she has came from me, and only because I wanted to, not because I wanted something in return. I was the one who listened to her for WEEKS when her boyfriend was treating her like crap, and all the time I never asked for anything. So, why is it all of the sudden when I actually do ask for a little help, I'm obligated to buy her stuff? Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know.
Well, I guess it's not even the worst part that she expected that from me, but when I said something to her, and I TRIED to be as nice as possible, she flips out and says "if your gonna be a bitch I'm just gonna block you". How am I being a bitch? Someone please tell me that. I just don't understand. I'm going to post the conversation so that I'm not made out to be a liar, I also do have screen shots so that she can't come back and tell me that I made stuff up.
(remember to read from the bottom to the top. keep in mind that after she said she would block me, she did. I tried to reply back only to find out that I was blocked, so now she is. I'm not dealing with the fu-bs.)
**BABY LET...: if your going to be a bitch to me for no reason then i will block you...i have never tryed to screw you over but what ever
->**BABY LET...: yeah, nothing but try to screw me over
**BABY LET...: dont get mad at me i didnt do anything to you...
->**BABY LET...: anytime you need leveled, I'm there. I've made you how much shit, I've blinged you how many times?
->**BABY LET...: yeah really I have, but ok
**BABY LET...: you have not helped me as much as you think you have...
->**BABY LET...: and I sent 6 credits.. so thats 60k, not 44k
->**BABY LET...: and as far as that goes, with as many times as I've helped you out in the past, I don't think I should have to pay for your fubucks, b ut whatever
**BABY LET...: i sent you 44,000 fubucks
->**BABY LET...: and I thought you were giving 10k per 1 bling credit?
**BABY LET...: what did you say before sometime this week?
->**BABY LET...: huh?
**BABY LET...: what did you say?
->**BABY LET...: this week sometime
->**BABY LET...: and I thought you were giving 10k per 1 bling credit?
**BABY LET...: ok when will that be?
->**BABY LET...: ok thats fine but he'll have to wait for bling until I get more again
**BABY LET...: i will make zi get on here after he gets off work today and add you kk...
**BABY LET...: ok
->**BABY LET...: ok, they are sent
->**BABY LET...: ok
**BABY LET...: yeah
->**BABY LET...: for your mom and the lava lamp for you?
**BABY LET...: Funky Monkey
->**BABY LET...: which one
**BABY LET...: yeah thats cool
->**BABY LET...: how do you want the bling split up.. 5 for you, 1 for your mom, or 3 for your mom and 3 for Zi?
**BABY LET...: yeah my mom is in my fam list
->**BABY LET...: I have 6 credits left. I can send her 1 and you a lavala lamp, or I can send her a 3 credit and save 3 credits for Zi, but since he wont add me, I'm not waiting forever
->**BABY LET...: is your mom in your fam list?
->**BABY LET...: uhh there is one in 15 minutes I think
**BABY LET...: lilmonkey@ fubar
**BABY LET...: kk when will there be a hh?
->**BABY LET...: I only send it during HH, but you can link me to her
**BABY LET...: you can send bling to my mom if you want...
Maybe I shouldn't even let this bother me, because after all, it is only a website, but friendship is not something that I take lightly. I find it very hard to trust people, and when I do find people who I can trust, I try my hardest to keep them happy, even if that means that I'm not happy.
So, am I right?
