After all these years, i think i finally get it...
whenever most of us guys hear girls complain about getting hit on all the time, we laugh it off, and think they are being whiny and stupid...
but i now understand what the girls mean...
i didnt realize just how stupid guys can be until i was in one of the lounges for awhile. The girls that come in there are all cool with each other, there's never any arguing or fighting, almost like they are a team. But the dudes, half of them come in there, and within minutes, they are already asking for YIM or even phone numbers
and i didnt realize just how annoying it is until i could see it on screen how bad guys can get...its one thing to flirt and have fun...but there is so much "hey baby" out there, its any wonder why most girls even bother going anywhere or doing anything...
i thought about it, and this is how i was able to explain it to friends at work (the guys)...we have a lot of, well, not attractive people at work, many who are in their 40's and weigh twice what i do...some dont bathe...sorry if that sounds shallow, but im tryin to paint a picture here... anyhow, i told the guys imagine if these girls kept coming up to you and saying nasty things and hitting on you constantly, how would you feel...every single guy had the same look - - horrified...and totally turned off
and i told them, thats what women see when guys pull the "hey baby" shit
ive never been one to hit on a girl because a) i have no game b) i have no game c) i start rambling incoherently, much like now and d) i have no game ... but now im thinking that maybe it was my aunts doing (my aunts and gramma raised me), and that they subliminally trained me as a young'n to not be "that guy"...
but it still amazes me when it works for these guys...i have to admit, im in shock and awe....
never again, though, will i laugh when a girl says she gets tired of getting hit on...
i get it now