... If yer a player ... Stay away ... Ya won't last long with me ...
I have had many adventures . When you fall in to a deep blind love that is uneven ... always expect the worst. Expect lies, excuses, stories, & cheap love in motels & hotels. The truth is most important, vital, & yet difficult at times. Someone is bound to get emotionally attached then hurt when the relationship starts out with a lie. Never be blind as a fool going into something your not sure about. Always keep a protective shield that is hidden to help you see clear. Yes there are two sides to every story. Only one is backed with proof, facts, & evidences. Even when the liar gets caught they still try to believe they were in the right. A player comes in many forms. A player is more successful playing someone who has never been played. The key is to keep your calm. If they know your on to them you will never get the facts to build your story against them. When they say that they love you while loving someone else ... That is the most crucial time of all! The time to get wise to put up that secret shield.
When the player gets caught they panic. They tell you and their friends and coworkers that the victim is crazy & a stalker. They then proceed to say that you are a manipulator while attempting to manipulate you and others. This is based on the facts that they are having to except reality of moving on. They then cling on to friends with there side of the story that bares no facts. While forgetting that they have bragged to them before about how they played another.
Then the fatal blow comes. Reality hits home. They lose both victims. The short term one & the long term one. They have either lost their lust to play or they just lay low to do it again later.
All you can do as the victim is let it go or retaliate. Take your loses or learn from your own experience. Just hope you can help others who fall under the same trap! You cry a few days while your stomach is in knots & suddenly you realize what a fool you were in the 1st place. Next, you grieve for a few weeks up to about a month. Then ... You move on as a smarter & stronger individual.
So ...Watch out for the "Player" ... They come as fun lovable demons disguised as "Dreams Come True" Then finish you off as a "Nightmare" that you wished you never met.
