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Virgo3166SexTherapist101's blog: "I am not a slut..."

created on 11/11/2011  |  http://fubar.com/i-am-not-a-slut/b344608  |  2 followers

What is it with men from overseas? I have a couple as friends, and as soon as I am nice to them and start talking, they are suddenly "in love" with me and won't stop smothering me. Are they that insecure that they cannot find a woman where they are living? I don't mind American men coming on to my profile and leaving hot little comments, but American men, talk to you for a while and then leave you alone. Foreign men, talk to you and if you talk to them, you are their girlfriends' and they constantly harrass you when you are on here, they just don't get it that some of us are naturally nice to everyone, and that doesn't mean we are your girlfriends.

My advice to all you guys is don't expect American women to be hard up, to want someone to shower them with gifts and constant attention...we are not that way, that is why we had the Equal Rights Amendment...we are self sufficient. We make choices in our lives that effect our family's life and we have rights to vote, and cook a meal or go out if we choose. We are not here for you to fall in love with. My advice to you, is talk to us, tell us you think we are pretty and leave it at that. The amount of men that are 'in love' with me; I am considering blocking.

Get a clue: Just say Hi, and move on...Please...I hate being rude to peeps here, but sometimes you push me to that point.

I guess this is one of my tasks that I will eventually have to do, so I am getting it out of the way now.

I know that a lot of horny men on this site feel that if a woman has "naughty" pictures of herself here, that that must mean she is easy and will put on cam shows anytime asked for it. That's not the case. I, myself, do get excited to have strangers look at me, whether it is photo or in person;but just because those pics are there for you to rate and enjoy, does not mean that I am here, waiting and willing to have you view me anytime you choose.

Try getting to know the person first. Light conversation, "how are you?, do you have kids? what do you do when you are not working?".  Then later, maybe a couple days down the line, maybe longer...then ask, could we?, or may I?, but what I've been getting is, "Hey..." (first time they have ever talked to me at all), "cam me". Excuse me...do you think I'm a slut? I try to get to know people and tell them, get to know me, so I can see if you are worthy of viewing me, but it doesn't make a difference.

There are also the men that keep my interest and talk nice and get me to trust them and then when they do manage to get me to "cam" with them or for them, and I mean sexually, then they don't talk to me again afterwards, like I was too easy for them. Maybe they are just uneasy. Maybe they are embarrassed. Either way, we both agreed to let it happen and now I'm not good enough to talk to anymore?

I am a person, with feelings and a heart and soul. Don't treat me or any other woman like a piece of meat to naw on when you get hungry. We are people. We love to share ourselves but we have our limits and some of you cross that line, a lot. Try asking nicely if certain things are allowed with us. We would more likely to do certain things if you showed some respect.

For those who have given me respect, who have commented with nice comments, and you know who you are, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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