With self-help books everywhere, one would think there would be a how-to book on mending a broken heart, or suviving the loss of a love. How about "How to Live after Rape?" No, of course not. Or "How to Glue Your Heart Back Together After The One You Love Shatters It" ?. Nah. Just "How to Build a Bridge" and "How to Mend a Fence." How about one entitled "How to Fix Your Life" ?