How to make a woman orgasm
When it comes to pleasing a woman and giving a woman orgasms most guys are their own worst enemies. They do everything wrong and hope for great results.
Here are the key mistakes and some tips...don't screw 'em up.
DON’T: Mimic porn stars from flicks with names like ‘Saving Ryan’s Privates,’ or ‘Pulp Friction.’
In bed, most guys make the mistake of just copying what they see in videos or on the internet. These positions are what look best on camera NOT what provides the best stimulation and enjoyment for women.
What's misleading is the women in the videos are paid to 'act' as if they enjoy everything even when it doesn't really feel good - that's their job. .
(Let’s be honest: no woman looks that good when she hits the big O for real. Her face tends to scrunch up like cheap plastic in a bon fire, sometimes accompanied by pushing noises reminiscent of labour contractions or a long overdue bowel movement.)
DON’T: Rush Into Penetration.
70% of the women I surveyed said foreplay was essential to make a woman orgasm.
Much like Pavarotti’s vocal chords, a woman’s body must be warmed up, properly lubricated, and babied a lot in order to sing.
While men are visually stimulated, women are more complex. Women need to be able to imagine it, play with the suggestion of it, and let the idea build in their mind until they feel the physical take over.
So, build up the suspense with:
deep kissing,
lightly kissing and biting her neck
light massaging
massaging her or “key places.”
Remember, the more foreplay there is, the closer she’ll be to orgasm right off the bat.
DON’T: underestimate the power of going ‘downtown’
Orally stimulating her is one of the most sure fire ways to get her to cum. 83% of women I surveyed said it would be easier for them to reach orgasm with oral pleasure first.
You should at least dedicate a portion of your time together to the ‘Southern flower’ as a way of getting her warm, wet, and ready for give your woman an orgasm.
Try using your fingers to penetrate her vagina while your tongue explores her clit. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how fast the she’ll cum.
In my experience, dee.
Am i right or wrong ladies.
