well this topic came up to me when an old girlfriend called me up and said that she still loved me but she cheated on me in the realtionship that we were in and that was like 3 years ago. Can she really still love me or is this some kinda of way to just use me for sex again like she did before. She also told me that i was the greatest boyfriend she has had and that it hasnt been the same without me. She tells me this now hoping that i would take her back again. But i always go by the motto once a cheater always a cheater. So i told her that we can just be friends. Well when it came down to it and i started new relationships with other girls i found myself just wanting sex and i know that im a hypocrite for just wanting sex. So i made a choice not to have sex anymore for a year and well its been over a year and i still havent had sex. Yeah it was hard but i kept my cool i wouldnt put myself in the situation where i might have broke my oath. But now that its been a year i still dont know if im ready for a relationship without sex.I wanna find out but im scared that i might hurt another girl..What do u think hit me up