Ragdoll's blog: "good stuff"

I am going to dive right into the middle of a classic sexual war between men and women. I may stir up the dust but it is something to definetly think about girls...

We dont give Men the credit they used to get from women,of an Era not too long ago.

We lost our ability to give them PRAISE.

I know some of it is ingrained into our heads, those fucking fairy tales that Prince Charming is Coming to Rescue us...( from what we were being rescued from I dont have the foggiest). It gave us the images in our head that men were strong and women were weak.

In today's society we have blended those images and they are blurred. We have Strong men AND strong women.I do not take anything away from a strong career minded woman. I respect your determination to gain equal footing in the Work world.There was in fact alot of good that came from women voicing their rights to be treated fairly and equally with respect in that arena. At one time I saw a poster that illustrated that women still only earn .72 cents on the same 1.00 given to a man for the same work. This is still discouraging to me.But in time the gap will hopefully narrow if not be eliminated completely.

But wages isnt what this is really all about. But It could be.

Lets talk about equality for a moment. Lets say you are in a relationship with a man. What do you want from him? You are married or co-habitating for the sake of my logic.

Is he the provider for you? For your children?

If he is not the sole provider,  and lets say you have your own money, Is your money your own or do you equally split everything right down the middle?

When it gets right down to it two seperate cultures are clashing. It is nice to have women provide more dollars for the home life. Its a necessary evil. It does take more, to get by with less these days. Woman have stepped up to the plate. But there is a backlash.

Men know how to handle the power structure far better than women.They have been handling power since time began. Women only in the last 70 years or less. Were learning fast. Men are learning to absorb more of the domestic routines traditionally held by women. They are doing wonderfully. But they are project oriented and can form a plan, organize and complete task at hand. Without much emotion I must add. I equate it to hunting deer. They go...wait...see target...shoot...tah dah! mission accomplished.

Same analogy in their shopping routine.God I love it!

I'm gonna get a little deeper tho....

We women think that we chose our significant other...I guess there isnt really too much harm in thinking that altho I disagree. In the natural order of things..the reality is girls no matter what you think, HE CHOSE YOU! I am of the opinion, which may piss you off by the way....That even thru the makeup and perfume and the heels smokescreen to allure him..It was process of natural instinct and selection. He controls this.

I can only say this...any relationship where I did the selection, has failed. Not because I did anything wrong or my partner did anything wrong. I asserted my will above natures process. Now thats not saying Im supposed to just sit back and wait for the right one to choose me. I'm going to enjoy life. But Im not going to go out and zero in on a target and pray its the right one either.

If it was incorrect about the man making the choice...then why do us women want him to get the ring.?....We are in essence saying yes to the choice he made to choose US.

We forget to thank him for making that choice. I want to honor the man in the position of power. He was created first, and woman from man. Why does he have one less rib? (i'd really like to know)

A mans home is his castle truly.The most healthy of relationships flourish when the atmosphere is based on proper honor and respect. A man cannot be a man when totally dominated by a woman. Equally said a woman cannot be herself if there is unhealthy submissiveness and she is overdominated by an insecure man. No healthy environment exist in either situation. There is a Balance of Equal Understanding Of Power within a relationship. A man will in essence lift his woman up to high position and love her adore her and praise her when she defers to him the honor