I have known this guy for 8 years and have worked with him for 4 of those in the beginning! I liked this guy back then and he was a little bigger then, however he had a girlfriend and I kind of knew her so did nothing about it.
We lost touch for a few years and have just recently started seeing each other again as he comes into the club I work at>
I stupidly told him last week (when I was drunk) that I had fancied like mad back then and still do! He couldn’t believe it as he thought he was not attractive because he was a little bigger (he has lost some weight now and still he is attractive to me.
He responded by saying that he has liked me for that long and only wishes I had said something sooner as he is now married to someone else (not the girl knew)!
He has confessed that he is not happy in his marriage. Nothing has happened between use and nothing has ever been started!
What should I do! We get along great and are clearly attracted to each other! It is a bit of a problem.
Someone help!
