Your relationships help change how you view yourself. The point for all that interactions is to let yourself try new things and, yes, sometimes fail. That's how we learn. Go easy on yourself, spread out, breathe, and grow.
The mind is a terrible thing to waist. The heart can be broken, but also repaired. Looks isn't everything, but a part of something. The soul is 1 but created thru all..So tell me why do we judge the unjudged? and why do we choose the unchosen?