Hearbroken ladies of My Space......Listen up
Category: Romance and Relationships
Ok, listen up and take notes...
Yeah, been on the giving and receiving end of the heartbreak scene for a long time. When I was a lot younger and stupid(er) if I met a girl that was a stuck up bitch, it became my goal to rock her world, then leave her crying. As years went on I grew up.
Listen, those of you that know me know I am a decent guy, and love people and try to be a friend to everyone. In the past few days I have discovered several of my friends are hurting from relationship problems.
Ok, normally ladies are the enemy camp, been fucked over so many times that that's just the way I feel. For almost two years I went on a spree of carelessness, it was called the "Couldn't give a fuck" syndrome. And it was just the opposite, because that's all any woman was getting out of me!
But I came back to my senses and realized that I still longed for a good lady by my side, someone who I could wake up with and actually wanted her to stay and spend the day together. The moral of this tid bit, do what you gotta do to get back on track COWGIRL UP and listen to some insight from the enemy camp.
1st If dude still has issues with his ex, let it go. It going to be a bad situation! Proven fact.
2nd If dude beat the shit out of his ex wife(s), girlfriend(s), he's going to kick your ass too!
3rd If you stay in a mentally or physically abusive situation your pathetic and deserve what you get. Don't let anyone steal your wind, and by that I mean, don't let anyone steal your self worth or twist you to where you think you have to stay because no one else will want you. *If you need help out of such a situation let me know...I'll help!
4th If he stops opening the door or holding your chair after a week, it was an act! He's not THAT guy. If the talking stops, if the late nights of laughing and cuddling end, well, the relationship is soon to follow.
5th If he doesn't text you during the day to say, "Hey baby, was just thinking about you" then somethings wrong because he wasnt thinking about you.
6th If he suddenly has other things to do all the time then he sure does, and if there's and ex involved then she is probably the other thing.
7th Dont think your ever going to be the one to change us! Woman always seems to think there going to make us change, many before you have tried...and failed! A leopard cant change his spots, unless he does it on his own. It in fact pisses us off when you try to do it. If you fall in love with whom and what we are then leave it be, you might not like the change you bring about.
8th If he tries to CONTROL you, he is controlling. He will try to take control f your life and you'll resent him for it later. If you argue about your friends, whos on you're My Space list, ect., he will try to control your life.
9th If you have actual FRIENDS on you list, and not just page decorations, let them be friends. Talk about whats bothering you and whats going on. Let them be a friend to you too, otherwise, whats the point.
10th We (men) know exactly what you ladies want to hear. The difficult part, for the sincere, is sometimes telling you what you don't want to hear.
Hey, getting your heart wounded is part of life, but its not your whole life, morn, cry, get it out, and get over it. Choose carefully who you entrust your heart to. Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince!
Any don't think that some emails and shred flirts on My Space or yahoo are really getting to know someone. Even the dumbest of us (guys) can great a great looking facade.
My reason for being who I am and for writing this, well I have nothing to gain or lose. I have a life off line, I have no problem connecting with the opposite sex, Im not looking for anyone, least of all on My Space (my own reasons) and I am always true to the man I am, no matter what. You can take this advice or not, it really doesnt matter. But I hope it will be food for thought. And keep in mind how you treat people, least ye be treated likewise
Common Sense:
If your going to meet someone, make it a public place (my choice is Starbucks).
Don't invite a complete stranger to your house. Don't give out your address.
If you call him, get his number, and block your when you call.
Don't give out personal information.
If you have kids, be especially carful....please
