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Tips for Discovering the Truth Despite popular belief, most lying and cheating does not get discovered because a suspicious spouse is good at reading his or her partner’s behavior. Typically, romantic partners get caught in one of two ways: Accidental Discovery: In most cases, deception and infidelity are uncovered by mistake. Monitoring a Spouse: Surveillance, on the other hand, is an attempt to discover the truth by monitoring a spouse’s behavior without his or her awareness. If you're dealing with a lying boyfriend, an unfaithful fiancé, or a cheating spouse, surveillance is almost always needed to get at the truth. Monitoring a spouse tends to be the most effective and reliable way to find out the truth. But, spying on a spouse can also cause it's own problems. Is it ethical to monitor a husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend without his or her knowledge (see, is it ethical to monitor a spouse)? On the other hand, if your dealing with a lying and/or cheating partner, how do you solve the problem, until the truth is out in the open? Tips for Catching Lying and Cheating: Keep a journal of your spouse’s reported activities. Write down the times, dates, places, other people involved, excuses given, etc. Your journal will become invaluable as you compare what’s said with phone bills, credit card statements, atm withdrawals, talk to other people, etc. A cheating spouse is likely to change his or her story, or question your memory, so keeping a record of everything is critical. Keep track of all incoming phone calls. Record the time and number of all calls. Plan a surprise visit to work, or come home at unexpected times, or make announcements about having to work late, but then come home early, etc. Keep track of your spouse’s mileage, receipts, credit card statements, atm withdrawals, phone records, etc. If you can, check your spouse’s call log. Look for an unusual amount of phone calls. Keep in mind that cheating spouses often store their lover’s phone number under someone else’s name: a friend, a co-worker, etc. You can also purchase surveillance equipment (hidden cameras and voice activated recorders) or download computer monitoring software (keylogger) which will make it easier for you to monitor your spouse's activities. Using such equipment can, however, can raise some legal issues (see, surveillance issues). Never confront your spouse until you're certain that you have enough evidence to make your case. And never reveal all of your evidence at once. Most cheating spouses will try to concoct a story to fit the evidence presented (for example, see husband won't confess). But, if you withhold some evidence, and let your spouse create a story, it gives you the opportunity to use the remaining evidence as leverage. And by strategically withholding evidence, your spouse will start to question exactly how much you know, increasing the odds that he or she will tell you the truth. Overall, if you find anything suspicious, do not confront your spouse until you're certain that you have enough evidence to get a confession. And again, think for a minute about how your spouse might try to dismiss your accusations (e.g., we were just joking around, I was just flirting, it was a misunderstanding, we are just friends, nothing happened, etc.). If you can anticipate how your spouse is likely to respond, you can try to gather the evidence you need to counter what he or she says. Finally, listed below are several more techniques, products, and services designed to help you catch a lying and cheating spouse. Computer Monitoring Software - allows you to see everything your spouse does online. Establish a record of all online activities. GPS Tracking Devices - purchase a global positioning satellite device which can track a vehicle's exact location 24 hours a day. Home Surveillance Equipment - hidden cameras and voice activated recording devices can be purchased in every shape and size imaginable. Comprehensive Background Checks - do you think your boyfriend or girlfriend is lying to you about the past? A background check can veal a lot about a person's past. Private Investigators - hiring a licensed investigator is the quickest and most effective way to discover the truth. In most cases, the options listed above are very effective when trying to discover the truth about a cheating spouse. If, however, none of those options work for you, several more options are provided below. Hopefully, you can find a technique that will work in your specific situation.
You're Invited To A Celebration! You are cordially invited to A BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION!!! Guest of Honor: Jesus Christ Date: Every day. Traditionally, December 25 But He's always around, so the date is flexible... Time: Whenever you're ready. (Please don't be late, though, or you'll miss out on all the fun!) Place: In your heart.... He'll meet you there. (You'll hear Him knock.) Attire: Come as you are... Grubbies are okay. He'll be washing our clothes anyway. He said something about New white robes and crowns for everyone who stays till the last. Tickets: Admission is free. He's Already paid for everyone... (He says you wouldn't have been able to afford it anyway... It cost Him everything He had. But you do need to accept the ticket!! Refreshments: New wine, bread, and a Far-out drink He calls "Living Water," Followed by a supper that promises to be out of this world! Gift Suggestions: ; Your life. He's one of those People who already has everything else. (He's very generous in return though. Just wait until you see what He has for you!) Entertainment: Joy, Peace, Truth, Light, Life, Love, Real Happiness, Communion with God, Forgiveness, Miracles, Healing, Power, Eternity in Paradise , Contentment, and much more! (All "G" rated, so bring your family and friends.) R.S.V.P. Very Important! He must know ahead so He can reserve a spot for you at the table. Also, He's keeping a list of His friends for future reference. He calls it the "Lamb's Book of Life." Party being given by His Kids (that's us!!)! Hope to see you there! For those of you whom I will see at the party, share this with someone today! Anita

The Nativity Story

'The Nativity Story' One day about 2000 years ago, an Angel of the Lord called Gabriel told Mary she would have a very special baby that she should call Jesus. Mary married Joseph and he took her to Bethlehem so they could pay their taxes. Mary was expecting to have her baby very soon. When Joseph and Mary arrived in Bethlehem there were no rooms left in the Inns because the town was very busy. They were worried because they had nowhere to sleep and Mary was tired because the journey had been long and dusty. She felt sore from riding on a donkey. But a kind innkeeper said they could shelter in the Inn manger, where animals like sheep were kept overnight to stop them from straying. Mary knew the baby would be born soon, so she was very glad to be able to rest in the manger. The manger was a small room like a cellar at the bottom of the Inn. It was strewn with straw for the animals and the animals made friends with Mary and Joseph who settled down for the night as best they could. In the night Mary had her baby. Joseph and Mary called the baby Jesus just like the angel told them they should. They put baby Jesus in some swaddling clothes so he was wrapped up warm and snug. Then they put some straw for a bed in a small wooden manger that animals fed from and put Jesus inside it. A very bright great star shone over the manger and they were all covered in light. It was a very starry night and the local shepherds were looking after their sheep in the fields. The Angel of the Lord told them Jesus was born and that he would be a Saviour of men. So as soon as they heard about the birth of Jesus they hurried to see Mary and Joseph to wonder at Jesus. Later 3 Kings from the east followed the star. The 3 kings were wise men and the great bright star helped them find their way to Jesus. The 3 kings were on their camels and made a very grand sight. The 3 kings took Jesus gifts of Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh. These were very valuable gifts in those days. Gold could be used to buy things and the frankincense and myrrh were used for medicine and perfume. Jesus Christ was the Son of God and grew to be a very special man indeed. This story is the real story of why we celebrate Christmas today, to celebrate the coming of Jesus Christ who 33 years later died on the cross to save our souls from our sins. This celebration is named after Jesus Christ as the Mass of Christ or Christmas. We give presents to those we love just like the 3 wise men did and because Jesus was special we keep this as a special celebratory time of year every year.

A TRUE ZOMBIE

The True Story Of Clairvius Narcisse A Haitian man said to have been turned into a living zombie with the use of a combination of drugs. His case attracted considerable interest and some scientific investigation at the time. According to reports, Clairvius was poisoned with a mixture of various natural poisons to simulate death. The instigator of the poisoning was alleged to be his brother, with whom he had quarreled over land. After his "death" and subsequent burial on May 2, 1962 his body was recovered and he was given a paste made from datura which at certain doses has a hallucinogenic effect and can cause memory loss. His new 'master', a bokor (sorceror), then forced him, alongside many other zombie slaves, to work on a sugar plantation until the master's death in 1964. When the bokor died, and regular doses of the narcotic ceased, he eventually regained sanity (unlike many others who had suffered brain damage from being buried alive) and returned to his family after some time, though only after finding his brother had died. Narcisse's story was popularized in the book The Serpent and the Rainbow by Wade Davis, who is currently an "explorer in residence" for National Geographic. Although many are critical and suspicious of Mr. Davis' work, his hypothesis that Clairvius Narcisse was drugged with a neurotoxin that simulates death, is scientifically possible. Also See: PASSAGE OF DARKNESS: THE ETHNOBIOLOGY OF THE HAITIAN ZOMBIE By Wade Davis. Chapel Hill, The University of North Carolina Press. 1988 The essence of Davis' claim is this: there are zombies however, there are actually very very few of them they are created in part by a poisoned powder however, they are created in part by the effects of the culture zombies are created when a person first falls into a death-like trance which is both drug and culturally induced then is revived and kept under the control of the houngan by the use of other drugs zombies are created by Voodoo priests who are members of the Bizango secret societies Bizango societies constitute a totally secret and hidden other government beneath the surface of Haitian society zombification is not random nor for profit or personal vendetta zombification is the ultimate punishment to someone who has seriously violated the law of the Bizango society The poison apparently used was derived from the puffer fish, which produces a well known and highly documented neurotoxin (tetrodotoxin) which produces paralysis and in modified form can mimic death through reduced metabolism and heart rate. The secretions of the poisonous cane toad bufo marinus were apparently used as an anaesthetic companion drug, while the rescucitating, mind-controlling drug was said to be made from the weed datura stramonium. The Making Of Real Zombies In Haiti, people are buried very soon after death, because the heat and the lack of refrigeration makes the bodies decay very rapidly. This suits the zombie-making process. You have to dig them up within eight hours of the burial, or else they’ll die of asphyxiation. The skin of the common toad (Bufo bufo bufo) can kill - especially if the toad has been threatened. There are three main nasties in toad venon - biogenic amines, bufogenine and bufotoxins. One of their many effects is that of a pain-killer - far stronger than cocaine. Boccaccio’s medieval tale, the Decameron, tells the story of two lovers who die after eating a herb, sage, that a toad had breathed upon. The other half of the witch doctor’s wicked potion comes from the pufferfish, which is known in Japan as “fugo”. Its poison is called “tetrodotoxin”, a deadly neurotoxin. Its pain-killing effects are 160,000 times stronger than cocaine. Eating the fish can give you a gentle physical “tingle” from the tetrodotoxin - and in Japan, the chefs who prepare fugo have to be licensed by the government. Even so, there are rare cases of near-deaths or actual deaths from eating fugo. The toxin drops your temperature and blood pressure, and puts you into a deep coma. In Japan, some of the victims recovered a few days after being declared dead. Back in Haiti, once you’ve got the zombie-in-waiting out of the ground, you make them mad, by force-feeding them a paste made from datura (Jimsons Weed). Datura breaks your links with reality, and then destroys all recent memories. So you don’t know what day it is, where you are and, worst of all, you don’t even know who you are. The zombies are in a state of semi-permanent induced psychotic delirium. They are sold to sugar plantations as slave labour. They are given datura again if they seem to be recovering their senses. Datura (Jimsons Weed, Angel’s Trumpet, Brugmanisa candida) contains the chemicals atropine, hyoscyamine and scopolamine, which can act as powerful hallucinogens in the appropriate doses. They can also cause permanent memory loss, paralysis and death. The person who applies these chemicals to a victim has to be quite skilled, so that they won’t kill them. There is a very small gap between appearing-to-be-dead, and actually being dead. Haitians believe that the “zombie powder” works when merely brushed on the skin, and therefore can be administered without the victim’s knowledge. According to legend, the powder can be smeared on the doorstep of the victim’s house so he will absorb it through the soles of his feet. Davis points out that all reliable reports show that the material must enter the blood directly, through a cut or abrasion, and it is therefore unlikely that it could be administered without the victim’s knowledge. Somehow, Narcisse received a dose of the zombie powder. He became ill, went to the hospital, became paralyzed, and “died.” He later said that he was conscious throughout and heard himself pronounced dead. After burial, he was dug up, beaten “to prevent his spirit from reentering his body,” and led away to a distant plantation. According to some accounts, zombies are fed a paste made from datura stramonium—the zombie’s cucumber—that contains tropane alkaloids capable of inducing a psychotic state. Continued doses could keep a zombie confused and docile during his new life as a slave. In the case of Narcisse, the slave owner died after 18 years, and Narcisse regained his freedom by simply wandering away from the plantation. This is an excerpt of an article that originally appeared in the October 1987 edition of ChemMatters. ChemMatters is an award-winning quarterly magazine for high school chemistry students. Each issue includes articles which reveal chemistry at work in everyday life.ChemMatters was designed for teachers to use as a supplement to their first year high school chemistry course. A teacher's guide is available which provides additional information on articles, follow-up hands-on activities, classroom demonstrations, and additional resources. HAITIAN VOODOO IN THE NEW WORLD There are large numbers of Haitians who inhabit the "Little Haiti" section of Miami and in New Orleans where Haitian Voodoo is practiced by many non- Haitians. In New York City, the Brooklyn neighborhoods of Flatbush, Crown Heights, and Canarsie are home to many Haitian voodooist. In the Borough of Queens, Jamaica, Queens Village, Rosedale and Cambria Heights have large Haitian Voodoo populations. Many successful Haitians move east to Long Island, where Elmont and other towns have seen many new residents. Other enclaves that contain Haitians include Boston, Cambridge, Malden and Brockton Massachusetts; Chicago, Illinois, Orlando, Florida, and Newark, New Jersey and its surrounding areas. Haitian culture is a mix of primarily African and French elements with minor influences from Spanish and Taíno culture. The African and European influence is greatest however in nearly all aspects of society. Haiti's official languages are French and Haitian Creole (Kreyòl Ayisyen). Nearly all Haitians speak the latter, a creole based primarily on French and African languages, with some Spanish, English and Taíno influences. Spanish is spoken near the border with the Dominican Republic, and is increasingly being spoken in more westward areas, as Venezuelan, Cuban, and Dominican trade influence Haitian affairs, and Haiti becomes increasingly involved in Latin American transactions. Catholicism is the official state religion in which the majority, approximately 80%, of the population professes. An estimated 20 percent of the population follows the teachings of various Protestant churches. Many Haitians, especially Roman Catholics, also practice Vodou[24] (Voodoo), almost always in addition to traditional Catholic observances. Vodou followers believe that spirits called "loa" protect their children (vodou believers) from misfortune. Many Haitians, mainly Protestants, oppose vodou and the related reliance on sorcery and witchcraft. Haitian vodou is very similar to the Santería practiced in Cuba and the Dominican Republic, and the Candomblé practiced in Brazil. Pantheon Adjassou-Linguetor - Haitian loa (goddess) of spring water. Adjinakou - Haitian loa in the form of an elephant. Adya Houn'tò - Haitian loa of the drums. Agassou - Haitian loa which guards the Dahomean traditions. Agwe - loa of fish and aquatic plants. Aido Quedo - loa of fertility and snakes. Ayida-Weddo - Haitian goddess, where she is also known as Rainbow Snake. She is married to Damballa. Ayizan - Haitian goddess of the marketplace. Azaka Medeh - loa of harvest. Azaka-Tonnerre - Haitian god of thunder, agriculture and farmers. Bacalou - Haitian voodoo evil spirit depicted by the skull and crossbones. Badessy - Haitian god of the sky. Baron Samedi - loa of the dead. Boli Shah - Haitian family loa. Bossou Ashadeh - Haitian loa, king of Dahomey. Boum'ba Maza - Haitian family loa. Bugid Y Aiba - Haitian (and Puerto Rican) god of war. Captain Debas - Haitian family loa. Clermeil - Haitian god of flowing waters. Conga - Haitian voodoo deity. Congo - Haitian voodoo deity. Damballa - father of the loa and humankind. Dan Petro - Haitian god of farmers. Dan Wédo - Haitian loa of the king of France. Diable Tonnere - Haitian god of thunder. Diejuste - Haitian voodoo deity. Dinclinsin - Haitian voodoo deity feared for his severity. Eleggua or Eshu - Child trickster deity. Erzulie - Haitian voodoo goddess of beauty, dancing, flowers, jewels, love and luxury. Married to Damballa, Agwe and Ogoun. She is depicted as a water snake. Also called Mami Wata in African mythology. Gran Maître - Haitian creator god. Grand Bois - Haitian loa of creation. Kalfu - Haitian god of the night, symbolized by the moon. Thought to be very dangerous. Lemba - Haitian voodoo deity. Limba - Haitian loa believed to live among rocks. Thought to have insatiable hunger and eats people, even his own followers. L'inglesou - Haitian loa which lives among rocks and in ravines. Loco - Haitian god of trees, plants and healers. Lutin - The ghost of an unbaptized child in Haitian voodoo tradition. Mademoiselle Charlotte - Haitian loa who resembles Caucasian women. Mait' Carrefour - Haitian god of magicians and lord of the crossroads, also called Kalfu. Maîtresse Délai - Haitian loa who is a patron of the hountor or tambourine player. Maîtresse Hounon'gon - Haitian loa which chants the canzo or ordeal by fire in voodoo tradition. Maman Brigitte - Voodoo death loa. Marassa - The twin gods of Haitian voodoo. Marassa Jumeaux - The ghosts of dead twins in Haitian voodoo tradition. Marinette - Haitian loa, violent and powerful. Mambo - Haitian loa who brings storms. Mounanchou - Haitian voodoo deity. Nago Shango- Haitian voodoo deity. Obatala - yoruba creator god. Ogoun - Haitian voodoo god of fire, iron, politics, thunder and war. Oloddumare - youruba creator god. Oshun - yoruba goddess of love, also Erzulie (in Voodoo). Oya - yoruba warrior goddess. Papa Legba - intermediary between the loa and humanity. Pie - Haitian god of floods, soldier loa. Simbi - Haitian water snake loa, which is one of the three voodoo cosmic serpents. Sobo - Haitian god of thunder. Sousson-Pannan - Haitian loa thought to be evil and ugly, with a body covered in sores. Ti Jean Quinto - A mean Haitian spirit which lives under bridges and assumes the form of a policeman. Ti Malice - Haitian trickster loa. Ti-Jean Petro - Haitian snake deity and the son of Dan Petro. Yemalla - Yoruban mother goddess, also called LaSiren, Mami Wata Asagwe - Haitian voodoo dancing used to honor the gods. Avalou - Haitian voodoo dance which means supplication. Coco macaque - Haitian voodoo implement. It is a stick, which is supposed to be able to walk on its own. The owner of a coco macaque can send it on errands. If it is used to hit an enemy, the enemy will die before the dawn. Gangan - Haitian voodoo shaman. Ghede - family of spirits related to death and fertility Guinee - Haitian afterlife. It is also where life began and the home of their gods. Hungan - Haitian priests. They lead the peoples in dancing, drumming and singing to invoke the loa. Loa - Haitian god or goddess. Mambo - Haitian priestess who, together with the Hungan, leads the voodoo rituals and invokes the loa. Petro - aggressive and warlike family of spirits Rada - old, benefic family of spirits Ville au Camp - The underwater capital of the loa. RESOURCES The SERPENT AND THE RAINBOW by Wade Davis (Author) Passage of Darkness: The Ethnobiology of the Haitian Zombie by Wade Davis (Author), Richard Evans Schultes The Complete Idiot's Guide(R) to Voodoo by Shannon R Turlington (Author), Shannon R. Turlington (Author) The theory on which, the belief in Zombis is based on which some healers of Haiti (Nganga) have the faculty to bring again to dead and buried people to the life. These revived human beings are the Zombis, "the dead life". Also one thinks that during the night some people have the energy to fly through the air with an enormous red flame under her arms: these are werewolves. In the dances of the vudú, the farmers of Haiti put themselves furious since they are had by these spirits. When one is in this state, the doctor can predict the incidence to him of a catastrophe, the birth, or the death; how he will be able to gain immense fortunes; he will be able to describe what happens in its home when a man is absent of his family... the doctor also has energy on like avoiding any disease or catastrophe of which he can be victim. In the moved away areas of the country, the belief is that some rich farmers are lucky in their companies because the mysterious beings help them, because they work in his farms; who rob the money for them; who travel at a fantastic speed, faster than the automobiles. One thinks that they are dead men and women who were brought again to the life with the use of some powerful drugs (Wanga). The Zombis does not eat any salt. If they make it, they get be conscious from the state of his abnormal existence and must therefore probably leave his masters. This belief came originally from Africa. Todavia is a mystery the composition of the substance that takes to enter state zombie. Single in that mysterious place they know really its components, which is safe is that it causes incredible effects. Translated from http://www.pasarmiedo.com/zombies_haiti.php

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