Okay, so a guy that i had been going out with for 9 months and 5 days broke up with me.He says that he is scared of commitment.But, he also told his new girlfriend that he loved her and that she was sexy on myspace before he broke up with me.2 days after we broke up he started going out with her.It's been 3 weeks should i be over him by now? I really love him and my love for him is more then anything and anybody in the world.He says that he still loves me.And, that he is going to give me another chance.I think i believe him.And, he made a promise to his self that is supost to make me happy and it's good for me and him.Do you think that he wants to give me another chance?