This is also from my Xanga blog, but I thought it deserved it's own place. This is quotes from the book "He's Just Not That Into You". When I first posted this blog on Xanga I had things colored and underlined and it looked nice, but that's not happening here.
He’s just not that into you if he’s not asking you out…Because if he likes you he will ask you out.
*When it comes to men, deal with us as we are, not how you’d like us to be.
*An excuse is a polite rejection.
*Don’t get tricked into asking him out.
*If you can find him, then he can find you. If wants to find you, he will.
*Hey, let’s meet at so-and-so’s party/any bar/friend’s house is not a date.
*Men don’t forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.
He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you…Men know how to use the phone.
*Meeting someone you like and dating him is supposed to make you feel better, not worse.
*If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind.
*If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things.
*Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do.
*If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would out you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs.
*Busy is another word for asshole. Asshole is another word for the guy you’re dating.
He’s just not that into you if he’s not dating you…Hanging out is not dating.
*Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them.
*Better than nothing is not good enough for you!
*If you don’t know where the relationship is going, it’s okay to pull over and ask.
*Murky? Not good.
*There’s a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he’s your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.
He’s just not that into you if he’s not having sex with you…When men like you, they want to touch you, always.
*If a man likes you, he’s going to want to have sex with you.
*People tell you who they are all the time.
*Companionship is wonderful, but companionship with sex is even better. Go find yourself a friend that can’t keep his hands off you.
*Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.
*There’s someone out there that does want to have sex with you.
He’s just not that into you if he’s having sex with someone else…There’s never going to be a good excuse for cheating.
*If you are in a mutually established monogamous relationship, then when someone cheats on you, they have decided to blatantly disrespect a very important decision you two made together.
*Let’s call cheating what it is: a complete betrayal of trust.
*There is no excuse for cheating.
*Your only responsibility in someone else’s lapse in judgment is to yourself.
*Cheating is cheating. It doesn’t matter whom it was with or how many times it happened.
*Cheaters never prosper.
*A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn’t get to be with you.
He’s just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he’s drunk…If he likes you, he’ll want to see you when his judgment isn’t impaired.
*It doesn’t count unless he says it when he’s sober. An I Love You (or any semblance thereof) while under the influence of anything stronger then grape juice won’t hold up in court or in life.
*Drinking and drug use are not a path to one’s innermost feelings.
*If he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he’s inebriated, it ain’t love-it’s sport.
*Bad boys are actually bad.
He’s just not that into you if he doesn’t want to marry you…Love cures commitment-phobia.
*Doesn’t want to get married and doesn’t want to get married to me are very different things. Be sure about which category he falls under.
*If you have different views about marriage, what else are you not on the same page about?
*If you don’t feel like you’re rushing, why are you waiting?
He’s just not that into you if he’s breaking up with you…I don’t want to go out with you means just that.
*You can’t talk your way out of a breakup. It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one.
*Cut him off. Let him miss you.
*He doesn’t need to be reminded that you’re great.
He’s just not that into you if he’s disappeared on you…Sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself.
*No answer is your answer.
*Don’t give him the chance to reject you again.
*There’s no mystery-he’s gone and he wasn’t good enough for you.
He’s just not that into you if he’s married (and other insane variations of being unavailable)…If you’re not able to love freely, it’s not really love.
*Unless he’s all yours, he’s still hers.
*Don’t be that girl.
*You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he’s ready.
He’s just not that into you if he’s a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak…If you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy.
*There’s never a reason to shout at someone unless they are in imminent danger.
*Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment.
*You already have one asshole. You don’t need another.
Don’t waste the pretty
