and I'm amused tonight by the thought, that one of the most often-circulated "public service announcement" tags on this site starts by saying that this is an Adult Site (it isn't, legally speaking and all that stuff, read up and read what the admins have to say on the subject why don'tcha, but that's really not what I'm saying right now- anyway! ...) - and goes on to say, basically, "don't tattle on me, WAAAAAA!"
Such adults we all are here, I've noticed more, every time I'm here.
(I recall someone accusing me of tattling on her about a rules violation when I'd mentioned it over shoutbox and she'd partly objected, partly admitted at length, and next she knew she found herself penalized.) Frankly, shoutbox or message mention at sufficient length using certain keywords - not an unlikely technique?... - may be enough to bring it to the attention of the bouncers, for all I know- I hadn't _done_ anything else.)
Jersey Girl