Happy valentines day. Another response to a bullitine sort of thing. — Wednesday, February 14, 2007
It's long, but it's worth reading.
-To every girl that is SCARED to
put her heart out there again,
because she has been HURT
too many times or so badly.
-To every girl that has been
cheated on,
because she's not a slut
who gives it up to any guy.
-To every girl that
dresses cute,
not skanky.
-To every girl who
wants to be called
beautiful, not hot.
-To every girl that will spend her
whole day looking
for the perfect present for you.
-To every girl who gets her heart
broken, because he
chose that bitch instead.
-To every girl that would die
to have a decent boyfriend.
-To every girl who would just once
like to be treated like a princess.
-To every girl that cries at night
because of another heartbreak.
-To every girl that won't get
down on her knees && open
her mouth just to get a boyfriend.
-To every girl that
just wants to hold hands.
-To every girl that
kisses him with meaning.
-To every girl who
just wishes he cared more.
-To every girl who would just
once want a guy to give their
jacket up when they are cold.
-To every girl who
just wants him to call.
-To every girl who lies
awake at night thinking about him.
-To every girl that
just wants to cuddle.
-To every girl that
just wants to sleep with
him without having sex.
-To every girl who shows how much
she cares and gets nothing back.
-To every girl that thought
"maybe this one could be the one."
-To every girl that laughs at stupid stuff
when she actually >>doesn't<< think it is funny.
-To every girl who is just
looking for that one and
only. and is having a rough
time along the way.
-To every girl that doesn't want
a guy who just plays with her
emotions but actually cares about
how she feels.
-To every girl who wants
words backed up with actions.
-To every girl that fell for all the lies
only to find themselves alone in the end.
-To every girl that gave her heart away
to have it shoved back in her face.
-To every girl that has faith that
"tomorrow will be a better day."
And it will be.
Disclaimer: the following is my thoughts and opinions. I'm not writing from studies I've done, or other's research. I also havn't had any romantic relationships last over 3 months. This does give a " what " to this bulliton though. Before, there was no what, it just said who it was to. It didn't really mention what was actually to all those girls.
For one, quit laughing at stupid shit. It's fake, be real. If you get nothing back, leave the fucker, find a new one. If you put out more, you might not have to worry about them going somewhere esle, however, you probably don't want someone who would go somewhere else even if you didn't.put out. Get your own fucking jacket. It's not my fault you forgot yours.If I gave you mine, then I'd be rewarding you for not thinking, and you would do the same in the future. I'd be hurting you.Sometimes in life, you have to take innitiative. Get your own stuff, you aren't a child anymore. This brings me to the calling thing. You should call if you want to talk to someone. Don't wait for them to call, They usually aren't psychic. There's some girls that won't ever call guys, and then guys just recipricate. If a guy calls you, and it takes days or a week before you call back, HE PROBABLY WON'T CALL YOU AGAIN SOON. If you spend your whole day looking for the perfect presents, you probably enjoy it. It gave you something to do that you enjoy all day long. Be gratefull that you had that whole day of joy. If you just want to sleep with him without haveing sex, make it known ahead of time. Also, stay away from his genitaila. I he goes near yours, break his hand. Or just leave the bastard.
-To every girl who wants words backed up by actions- That seems to go along with the lieing thing. I get complaints about actions not backed up with words. You talk about people lieing to you. But you want them to lie to you. People get pissed off at me for being honest. Sometimes that dress does make you look fat, or maybe it's your fat that makes you look fat. Sometimes that shirt is ugly, so don't wear it. I'll get a better one if you want. But don't ask questions you don't want honest answeres to, and then complain about guys being liars. Sometimes they just get used to telling you what you want to hear because they don't want to see you upset. But it doesn't matter, you either get upset by the truth, or you get upset cuz they are liars. Guys turn out to be assholes either way. I think girls turn guys into liars by getting so upset when they don't get told what they want to hear. Make it known that you want the truth wheather it's pleasant or not, and don't throw fits when you don't like it, and maybe guys will be more honest with you!!!
Simple operant conditioning. This might sound awefull, but it's true and happens weather you concously do it or not. So you might as well conciously do it to get the results that you want. People react to you according to how you treat them mostly. Walk down the hall, and smile at someone, or stick your tounge out. They will likly do the same thing back. People are weird like that. If something does something you like, do something they like. That will make it more likly that they do it again. If someone does something you don't like, either don't do something they like, or maybe do something they don't like. I suggest the first one in most cases. Taking away a positive is better than adding a negative. You often shape the people around you without realizing it. If you make someone feel a bad way when they are honest, they will quit, because they don't like feeling like that. It's the same with about anything else. And eventually the reward or punishment doesn't even have to be there every time. It can be every so often, or can eventually fade away and their behavior will often stick around for a while. People rarely touch a hot stove twice on purpose. And people often do the same thing that caused a positive result more than once. Sometimes if nothing else, they do it because the positive memories of the past are summoned up. But they will avoid something, sometimes even if it's something they uste to like, if bad memeories from the past are conjured up.
Sometimes the other person just isn't right for you. Sometimes you aren't right for them. Yah, that sux, but that's life. I do think that there is more than one person for everyone. You just have to find one of the many people that will work for you, and you work for. And you aren't going to find them by sitting at home on the computer all the time. Go to work, go to school, go to the gym, vollunteer somewhere. There's all sorts of guys at the homeless shelter. lol. I think volunteering is a good idea, because it allows you to find someone who actually cares about other people and the world around them. But there are all sorts of other activities you can do and get involved in that will help you meet people. If you aren't one of those people who care about the world around you, still volunteer, it will be good for you. Don't look for a significant other there though, cuz you will probably clash.
So, now we have the " to " part. We have the " what's to you " part. Who is this from, though?
Me. That weird guy with colorfull hair who recently broke up with his girlfriend. That really sweet guy who ends up breaking other people's hearts because he hasn't found the person he really wants yet. Someone sitting around on my computer alone on valentines day with presents to give to no one. From about the sweetest guy in the world, who can't seem to find what he's looking for. ( But it might have something to do with sitting around alone on my computer some much instead of looking, or getting out in the world much. So I am going to try to follow my own advice. )
From,
Adam
