I am often asked why I wont chat to married men. Thought the best way to answer this was to blog about it.
The reason is quite simple.
I was cheated on by my ex hubby. I went to hell and back because of it. e.g. nervous breakdown. I know the hurt that it causes, and would never wish that on anyone else.
Here some would say its only chat.
That again is answered easily.
It always starts off as chat, even if you meet in a pub, club or anywhere else. Its what happens after the chat thats worrying.
It broke my marriage and I dont want to be the cause of anyone elses marriage to suffer. {Hey not that I think that highly of myself, because I dont}.
At the end of my marriage I was left with 4 children to raise single handedly. {Yes I know a lot of women have done and will continue to do it}.
I put my life on hold throught choice, my children were and are my life.
So to stop this from happening I choose not to chat to married men.
Now 17 years later I'm trying to make a life for myself.
