Guys every girl/women should date.
Wondering which fella to flirt with next? Make a point of getting to know these men—they can teach you wonderful things about life and love…
So you’re out on the town, looking for a cute guy you’ll click with…who’ll be the next lucky dude? Who’s your usual type? Before you answer, wait a second, and let us urge you not to date your usual type. You’ll benefit big-time by dating various types of guys.
Here’s why: Each will stretch the boundaries of what you think makes a suitable mate and teach you a unique set of skills that will come in handy when you do meet The One.
Type #1: The Older Man; There comes a point in every guy’s life when he’s no longer interested in keg parties, Sony PlayStations, and phrases like “getting laid.” In short, a man becomes a man, and that’s exactly why you should see what an older guy is all about. No, it’s not because he could be a sugardaddy who’ll shower you with fancy meals and great gifts. The real perk of dating an older guy is his worldliness, patience, understanding and wisdom, which is bound to rub off on you, “Because he’s had more life experience and has been through more than younger guys, he can play something of a teacher role”. I have dated woman 30 years younger than myself. “Most still call me today to thank me for the things I taught them”. “Some are very appreciative of advice I gave them, even little things like buying a CD, after I explained that I meant certificate of deposit, and not a music album!”
Type #2: The Starving Artist; Okay, sure: These dudes are not going to take you to fancy restaurants or even pay for your half of the dinner bill. Money, nice meals, and material goods don’t mean squat to this guy — and that’s exactly why you’ll have an incredible time once he opens your eyes to life’s simpler pleasures. The best dates, because they all involve great conversation and the most unexpected adventures. “They know all the best cheap beer bars, where the jukeboxes rock, and colorful people always want to tell their stories.” Not only will the world seem infinitely fascinating, but you may feel more fascinating, too, as you become inspired by his creativity and perhaps play the role of his muse.
Type #3: The Metrosexual; OK, so he may be better dressed and more recently manicured than you. Get over it - because not only will you reap the obvious benefits of dating a guy like this (by being able to borrow his expensive shampoos), you’ll get a chance to live a happenin’ life! These guys will take you to all the hottest clubs and coolest clothing stores, and let’s not forget just how fabulous you’ll feel walking hand-in-hand with a man who looks like he just stepped out of an issue of GQ. The benefits don’t end there: His style may well rub off on you. “This is significant,” “because it makes you feel better about yourself, as well as making you a stronger player on the social and professional fields.”
Type #4: The Bad Boy; This guy might have a motorcycle or not, but one thing’s for sure: He lives on his own terms and is not about to apologize for them. Hang with him for a while, and you’ll learn why being bad can feel so good—and how to stop worrying about what everyone else thinks. Talk about liberating! “In general, women tend to be pleasers, much more so than men”. “A bad boy can show you what it’s like to quit trying to make everyone else happy, and just do what you want.” “And from being with him, you may learn to look deep inside yourself for what's truly important - rather than just accepting what parents or friends thought was the proper path for you.”
Type #5: The Nice Guy; He never makes you feel insecure or uncertain, never plays hard to get, never makes you doubt how he feels about you. It’s a shame that we need to explain this one, and yet we know how hard it can be to date a true romantic sweetheart, at least at first. “A woman won’t be used to the frequency and consistency of affection nice guys give, since most other guys who are playing the dating game don’t do that”. Even so, I advise that women get used to the nice guys, and quick. Why? Because once you’ve had the good stuff (a guy who calls when he says he will; a guy who wants to see you more often as he gets to know you), you won’t stand for anything less. At the same time, that doesn’t necessarily mean you should start sending out the wedding invites after a few months. “Just because he’s nice doesn’t necessarily mean he’s the right guy”. “He might rate low in terms of romantic chemistry, because he lacks the edge that creates the kind of surprise, passion, and excitement that all people want in their lives.” Of course, the key is finding the man who has everything you want—until then, however, go ahead and try everything and don’t worry so much about whether you’ve found Mr. Right. Trust me, he’s out there. In the meantime, have fun and enjoy your life! While most women have dated all of these types, they most highly recommend The Nice Guy.
