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SapphireRayne's blog: "Grow up!!!"

created on 01/02/2008  |  http://fubar.com/grow-up/b174210

Downrater Haters

So what if someone does not rate ur photo a 10. If u cannot seem 2 put on ur big girl panties or big boy undies and accept the fact that a photo u have posted may not receive a "10", then remove that photo. If u do not want 2 remove the photos, then STFU!!! It just seems like as the days go by, more and more "adults" are acting like spoiled rotten little shits. Did ur parents not beat y'alls asses enough when u were little? Are u used 2 getting everything ur way, now that ur an adult? Well, sorry, I'm not kissin ur ass, or anyone else's for that matter. Moral of the story: Don't come bawling to me if I don't rate u a "10"...Just STFU.

Friends

FYI...some of you who are already on Myspace may have already read this...so if you have already read it there, don't be bitchin' bc I've posted it here too. Friends. Everybody has at least one. As children we all had many, but as we have grown older, the number started to dwindle down. Some of us, even as adults, still have many friends. But how many of those "friends" can be considered true friends? Before going any further, what exactly is the definition of a true friend? Personally, I believe a true friend is one that will stick by your side through thick and thin...One who would have your back in times of trouble...One who understands your differences, can live with them, and doesn't let the differences dictate the whether or not you will stay friends...One with whom, even if the two of you take a "vacation" from each other, can come back and pick up where you left off, whether that be 2 weeks, 2 years, or even 20 years. From what I have experienced and seen for myself, I have seen fewer and fewer of these "true friends" as years go by, not only in my own personal life, but also in others. It seems that we have all become so selfish in our own ways, that we don't want to allow someone with differences into our lives. Those whom we have let into our lives because of similarities, after showing a difference, no matter how small or insignificant, we are quick to cast to the wolves. But yet, many of us complain that we don't have very many friends, or we can never seem to keep friends for very long. Hmmmm...I wonder why. We all so self-absorbed that we can't seem to see, let alone admit, when we are in the wrong. Before anyone starts trying to lynch me, yes, I admit I have been guilty of this also. I guess what I am trying to get at through all my rambling is 1) quit expecting everyone to be just like yourself, 2) learn to accept the fact that nobody is exactly like you, and 3) learn how to be a friend and continue practicing that art till the day you die. Don't let the "true friend" species become extinct.

Whatever

Why do bitches keep trippin? I'm not tryin to stalk someone...I'm not tryin to take someone's man away from them. If the man wants to leave you, then that's his business. AND, if that happens, maybe you need to take a look inside yourself to figure out what you may have done to make him want to leave. I'm not singling out just one person in my life...as there are actually a couple of people that this is happening to. Oh, yeah...and leave what may have happened in the past in the same spot. It has no business in the present, especially if it happened 15 years ago and has no bearing on your present life. If you want to continue to beat a dead horse, then you need to grow up. If you are unable to do that, then I would suggest psychotherapy, or maybe even becoming a hermit. I am only out for friends...if something else becomes apparent in the relationship, then we'll figure out what to do with it when it happens. If I feel that pursuing anything further than just friendship is going to jeopardize said friendship, then I'm not gonna go any further. I know that this blog started out dealing with women who feel the need to trip bc of someone else, but I feel that what I just said about friendship needed to be put in here, also, as I have also been accused of being out for only satisfying my twat. Nope...that's what I have B.O.B. for. Men can come and go throughout the course of your life, but friends, whether they be of the opposite sex or not, are what make the ride bearable. In the meantime, before you start bitchin and trippin, take a look inside yourself and analyze the situation to see if maybe you had something to do with it. If you don't want to do that, then shut the fuck up. One last word of wisdom...if you're reading this and think that it's about you, well, you may be right, but you may be wrong. The only way to know for sure is to look deep within yourself to figure out what you're doing wrong in your life, and then figure out how to change it. Clear your conscience, and see how much happier your life can be.
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