Say Her Name – Women love to hear their man say their name. While “baby” and “sweetheart” are flattering, remind her of what it sounds like to hear you say her name. Be it unexpectedly mid-sentence or upon seeing her. Hearing you say her name evokes a certain closeness especially in moments of intimacy. Not to mention it’s effortless.
Take Notes – if you know your girl’s habits then you know where she spends most of her time. Leave a little post-it note in her closet that says “I love you in the blue dress, wear it.” Or a note on the bathroom mirror that says “the red lace thong, please.” And finally a note on the door that says “You look beautiful, meet me at our favorite place at 8 and be ready for an all-nighter,” or something to that effect. She’ll be ready to devour you by the time the night is over.
Fair Trade – lingerie is so cliche but it really doesn’t have to be! Buy your lady a sexy set of lace or silk panties! But here’s the twist: the next time you go out to dinner, slip them to her under the table or fold them in the napkin and slide it to her. Tell her to go to the bathroom and change into them in exchange for the ones she has on. Make sure you let her know you can’t wait to see her in them later.
Bubbly Bubbly – champagne is a natural aphrodisiac! Fellas, set the mood, light some candles and have some champagne chilling. Scientific fact: Champagne bubbles stimulate nerve endings, no lie, if you pour champagne on her nipples and clitoral area. Kiss her with grapes or strawberries in your mouth and whisper what you wanna do to her, followed by her name. This may also bring out a side of her you never thought existed. It’s a win, win!!
Show Your Strength – women love for a man to show his strength…on her. Catch her off guard and pin her to the wall and tell her how good she smells…followed by her name. Press your body against hers with some strong eye contact and grab at her thighs and waist. Finally pick her up, toss her over your shoulder (caveman style) and toss her on the bed. She’ll love your aggression and will be immediately turned on by your strength.