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Good girls/ Bad boys

Ok this topic I see more and more. So here is my theory and experience as to why good girls find bad boys. I am not saying I am a goody goody, but I am a good girl. Why do I always draw myself to the tough guy image. Well it's simple. I can be prim and proper the majority of the time. But when in a relationship with the tough bad boy it allows me to experience other things I never would have with a nice guy. Now when nice guys always say we finish last. That isn't true. It's the nice guys that allows woman to walk all over them are the ones that finish last. You can be a nice guy withought being a wussy. A woman likes a man that can stand up for themselfs, be passionate, daring. No one is saying change who you are, just if you want aa good girl, I am telling you what we attract towards. Now, when yall say a woman passes a good guy for a bad boy in the class of a asshole, that isn't true. We don't look for someone to beat us, but look for someone that will take us out of the good girl box. Let's take sex for instance, who enjoys the same positions over and over. Well as a good girl with a good guy that is what happend. Then I met the "bad boy". Sex was awesome, he wasn't afraid to do anything. Allowed me to be me and then experiment further. But the down fall was a very insecure, jealous person. So when the good out weighs the bad we tend to stay. Yes, unfortunalty abuse sometimes takes place. But I dated a few bad boys that were the biggest pussy cats. That is where i lean towards. When I look at a guy thin, white in color, puppy dog look, I shy away. Now when a man comes in my view, tall, over 200 pounds, build hottt, his eyes puls me in. So is this a stereo type? Yes, I believe it is. But my couriosity gets the best of me. FOr instance, there really in't anything I won't do with taste of course. Not talking 3 somes, dom etc.... I love fishing, hunting, motorcycle riding, cars etc..... The good boy images I have dated are corporate goody goodies. Or couch potaotes etc.... This isn't a bad thing. No one is saying change for the sake of finding the woman you want. No one is saying for you to settle. STOP allowing the woman you date to walk all over you. Then, to them, your nothing more then a door mat. STEP up, grow some balls, and go for what you want. You will see when this happends, you will be noticed for the wonderful person you are. Ok my idea of the perfect guy? There isn't one perfect guy. Perfection doesn't exist, not even in the perfectionist world. Perfection is a standard not something you can master. Because in someone elses eye it won't be good enough. But what I look for is eyes. Yes, eyes not the chest lol. Like hot steamy sex it's just the topping on the cake. I love an outdoors man. I like a man that will take risks, try new things. When I am held I wanna feel like he is the bigger person around me. Seeing I am not a small person. Passion, affection, loving, family man, working man (not addicted). Someone that does things just because he wants to put a smile on my face or let me know I am special. A man that doesn't change his ways after he gets me. Like the attention etc.... Then become so far and distant wich often happends after they know they have you. My main attratcion is respect. Does this man exist? You tell me. Are my standards to high? You tell me. I don't want to settle, I will die a loney woman, vs setteling. I hope this has helped those who say good guys always finish last. In my eyes it doesn't exist.
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