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It's funny how people come up to you and ask what did you do to get such a awesome gal/guy. Theirs a lot of people who see average people like most of us getting someone thats way out of their league but they are happy. I'm not writing this to tell everyone I'm sensitive guy or need someone cause I already have a amazing women. I'm writing this to maybe help those shy people get answers or for the people that our douche bags or hoes maybe change their life around and become the person they want to be.
First of all for the over confident guys out there your so called "LINES" don't work. This ain't the movies this ain't no 80 porn flick this is reality. I'm pretty sure no women wants to know how big your penis is when you first approach them FYI we all had sex ed and I'm pretty sure we all know guys have a penis. Being arrogant in a conversation with a women not going to get you brownie points either. Saying a girl is hot or sexy or some weird ass pet name probably get you a kick in the junk. Girls hear that all the time and not very impressed with it they want orginality not some guy who reads 10 best pick up lines off google. Try something on the lines of Hi , How are you? , make it know your interested but not deperate. Coming up to girl going hey your gorgeous or your beautiful right away is kinda of desperate move I'm not saying you shouldn't tell a girl she beautiful or gorgeous it's a respectful compliment. But at first approach they might think your a creepy stalkerish type. And for heaven sakes listen to the women, us men bunch of hyprocrites we hate not being listen to but yet don't listen to the other half. Swallow your damn pride and open your ears you be very surprise oh how much you can learn about someone if you actually listen. If you get that far and get a date awesome your on your way. But do not make the date about you make in meaningful and enjoyable have a corky convo but not so corky freaks her out. Have fun with the person your with and enjoy the night don't make it a night to get in her pants.
Girls, I know you think all men our pervs and the only way to get a mans attention ois to show off your assets. But to your honest belief most men are turn off by that. I don't care what any guy tells you them saying they like women showing their assets specially about a femal they dating they are liars. No men wants to date a women who dresses to be look at by other guys. Do we want our girls to be dress nice and show what they have yes but not in a way where half the block of men or just staring. My girl she dresses sexy but in a classy way she does it do it for others she doesn't do it for me she does it cause it makes her feel good. Thats what men want we want you to feel good about yourself but not a street hooker. We do not like hearing how many men you slept with it makes us feel like we are unwanted and your comparing us to the past. Just like you don't like hearing us saying how many women we slept with. Don't judge us on our past we all make mistakes we learn from it. Men are more insecure about losing someone then a women it's true men we are lil cry babys when it comes to this. We might act tough but were fragile to we might have to much pride but we or def.ly hurting inside. If you ask us a question and were honest with you don't be mad be glad. Sounds corny but were giving you a honest answer cause we truely do care for you and we want the best for you.
And yes both male and females need their time with there friends. We can be together 24/7 365 days a year and spare a couple hours with friends and have a good time together thats healthy. You don't like a certain friend state your opinion and move on we have no control of peoples friends or family. Let your significant other make that choice, we all have our own mind to make decisions with. Your not just lovers but your a team your partner in crime you make decisions together you make them alone and you stand by each other. If you truely care for someone you allow them to have their indepence but also allow them to share their life with you. If you can't trust them or can't be loyal to that one person nosense of being with them. So the moral of the story be yourself and let the other person be themselfs share each other lives but don't control the person free will.
