When a boy and girls is courting,they never seem to have any trouble talking to and understanding each other but when the game is on good communication is the first to go.This is stressfull for both boys and girls.It is not uncommon to hear a girls complain that her boyfriend is more interested in chatting in gamings or with friends.A good understanding of gender differences is also important in learning to communicate effectively.Men and women are different in how they express themselves as well as in how they recieve information.Healthy communication is a skill that can be acquired.And it is a skill that must be worked on the practiced consistently.It is often said that having a good relation is hard work,but having a bad one is easy.It require no effort. foxy_doll