Damn it's been a while since I've had the chance to shed some light on a real jackass but after months of keeping my mouth shut enough is finally enough. Last time I did a blog like this, I didn't have to air much dirty laundry it aired itself in the comments as people became comfortable enough to see that they weren't alone.
Secondly, if you're one of those who scream "All people do is start drama..." then stop reading now and you won't have to deal with it right?
Well, I guess for any good, "He's a lyin ass playah and wouldn't know a friend if one saved his life" story we have to begin with an asshole and I pick this one:
Anyway, if I put ALL his dirt out there, this blog would read like an unabridged dictionary but here we go. Since I can't use his real name We'll just call him Punk Ass....K..?
Punk ass and I started off with a mutual interest and we talked a lot getting to know one another. The more I talked to him the more I was really comfortable in thinking that he and I were not at the same point and not looking for the same thing but the understanding was that if he caught up with me we would revisit our situation. So we shifted into friends mode and off we went. We talked a lot and I mean up to like 6-9 times a day sometimes not including text messages n stuff. It was very cool..and if you're skimming, remember at this point we agreed to be friends.
Well, I hop out of bed one morning and my friends page says he's "In A Relationship" I was like where the fuck did that come from?! Hell I tell all my friends when I'm hooked up...lol, I'm a braggin ass bitch...lmfao. I have to admit though my feelings were hurt b/c it was contradictory to our earlier agreement. I didn't care that he'd hooked up but rather we didn't talk about it and that I didn't get some common courtesy before he went public with it. Well, as a friend does, he was comforting and just assured me that he had a stalker and he changed his status so that she would go away and that I was his best friend and "he loved me" and the only people he says that too was his kids. Come to find out (months later) that the "stalker" was a new girlfriend! Why lie? Oh and the I love you thing? Well...his now EX girlfriend was more than willing to donate to this blog:
Hmmm well he (as my friend) had sent this to ME:
Now you're up to speed....In all honesty, I can't keep his women straight nor in order but I started watching his page and noticed the tell tale sign of Fu Playah...with me being his friend I was less affected by that aspect of it, by this point I was bothered that he was lying..for no reason. So, I called him on it, I called him out on lies he told and over all how he was being a dick....well the took that well and even sent this:
Okay wait...anyone else notice the dates on those two screen shots? Okay just checking.
Well we stayed friends a while longer and he asked my advice on a problem he was having with a woman. He said that he had a friend (not me) that was very interested in him but his feelings were not mutual. Furthermore, she had been just a friend and nothing was ever between them and she was bugging him. Supposedly she was bugging him to the point that he had been nasty to her. I told him that he needed to apologize for being a shithead but to be honest (I think he had to look that up), tell her how he felt and if she did not respect it then he needed to remove her from his space.
Fast forward the clock....I noticed that even after his apology the lies kept coming and coming and coming...I couldn't deal so I had to bail. Now if anyone knows me, they know that if I bail thought it's usually with a bang and I could have probably done so w/o calling him a bitter bitch made motherfucker but whatever....
After he and I parted ways, I made a great new friend, and if she wants to make herself known, she will......she's got to be one of the sweetest people I'd ever met. Turns out...she was the "friend that was interested in dude that never had a relationship with him" (According to him, remember?) so we started talking and she provided me with these screen shots from when they were supposedly not together...lol:
Hmmm sounds like to me he lied...oh and as it all started to come out, come to find out that at the same time he was "not seeing" *choke* GirlA that he was all up in GirlA's BEST FRIEND'S ear tryin to hook up with her.
Look if someone hits me privately or asks here there is so much information to be had on this guy but the reality is, he's sold to the highest bidder. If you are involved with him or have been and have been hurt by him, please don't take it personally. He really doesn't care about anyone but himself. He has no concept of friendship, loyalty or what it's like to actually BE a friend.
If I got paid for my opinion...I'd venture to say that he uses women not just for fun but to feed his ego....same reason most people who do things like that do it but no matter how much he tells someone they are the one, they're not.....he's the ONLY one in his life, him and his kids. Everyone one else, on a platonic level or otherwise are insignificant and replaceable to him.
Now you know the deal if you get mixed up with dude, that's on you. Am I just a jaded ex fu friend? Nah, I took out some time to hang out with him when I was in his neck of the woods and NO there was nothin freaky bout the meeting, it was just two friends sayin hey and exchanging some words.
Now that it's all out there...I'm interested in seeing how deep all of this actually went....
**NOTE - THIS USER CHANGED HIS NAME PRIOR TO THIS BLOG SO NO BREECH OF BLOG TOS HAS OCCURED.
**NOTE - I'M NOT LINKING HIS PAGE, IF YOU'RE ON HIS LIST YOU KNOW WHO HE IS, HE MIGHT BE ON TOP DUDE OF THE WEEK SOMEPLACE TOO OH AND THIS PUNK ASS BITTER BITCH MADE MOTHERFUCKER HAS MADE HIS PAGE "FRIENDS ONLY" AS WELL