Ok so I go to this Massage school for Massages (Obviously) now and again right? What is odd is that they give a lot of different types of massages but not sensual massage. Now I'm not saying "You give happy ending?" but I am saying that sometimes when you go for a massage you want it more to be about the massaging and pleasuring of the body then the healing of it.
I mean after a long week or so of work I like to relax a bit. So I like to get a massage for that but the theroputic massages can just too a bit harsh. With all the muscle squeezing and the pressure point manipulation it's hard to get any real pleasure out of it. Sure it does the job it's supposed to but not nessaccerly the job you go in for.
Now I can understand not touching a womans cheast (obvious sexual harassment suits) or under the undies. But a Mans cheast is a big part of his body and to not massage it seems pointless. Not like your sucking on the nipples or rubbing them in a sexual manner your a licensed Massuse this is what they are expected to do. Thats like Peter Griffen suing his doctor for sticking his finger up his butt for a prostate exame. Rediculas.
I mean you can get the pleasure of a sensual massage without the expectation of a "happy ending" I mean don't get me wrong "happy Ending" would be cool but lets face it thats illegal and thats fine with me.
Now I get that Massage has fought long and hard for the rights to be taken as a legitamate theroputic occupation and not as "You want happy ending?" parlors. But just because you have the theropy side dosen't mean you need to cut out the sensuality either.
Which brings me to another subject. Men and thier propencity to still look at other women despite being happly in a relationship. Why do they do it those cheating bastards? Well it's simple it's not about cheating. A lot of women like to say "So I'm not good enough for you?"Ladies it's not about you not being good enough for us. It's about Variety and appreciation.
Take this for example. You travel the world. See every single peice of artwork ever created and evcer will be created (Somehow). You now buy and take home the best peice ever created. You own it, it's yours, do with it as you please. So what now? You can never look at Staryy night again? How about the Mona Lisa? off limits now? True art work can't get jealouse but thats off topic on this point. You can own the best most beautiful artwork ever created and still enjoy seeing Monet's Waterlillys.
It's about appreciating beauty. It's not about comparison. It's not look at that gorgeous blind over there, she's much better looking then my wife. It's about look at that beautiful woman, that peice of art, that womderful form. I have a wife though so I'm not going to ask her out. But it doesn't hurt to appreciate it.
It's not a cheating thing it's a beauty thing. Now sometimes it's about owning all the artwork so that nobody else can have any. Thats a different story. Or dumping your artwork simply because you found a piece more interesting at the moment. All I am saying is all the women who believe because a guy watches porn, or looks at a magazine like Playboy (non XXX), or sees a beautiful woman walking accross the street doesn't mean he is thinking about leaving you for them, or thats it's a judgement call on your compaired beauty. I won't say it never is, however, the female consenses is that it always is. It isn't.
