If fubar is your reality I am sorry. I apologize for not being here as much real life has me very occupied. If you spend every waking moment in Fu and you are obsessing about all the imaginary things...you may need a fubreak. True life will pass you pass. This site is for entertainment. I have met some great friends on here and have been blessed with still having them in my life. I enjoy texting and seeing how they are doing. None of the things that happen here (except maybe an ex who is a stalker) and the friendships that you develop with your friends are real. If you wonder why I bling someone check to see how often they bling me. There are special friend who I always bling just because. If you are trying to figure out someone's mind on fu....take a look at your life and wonder when will I start living? I am sure that your one of those people who always has status updates that always say 'I hate my life" or propagating fudrama. Your life will get in order when you stop and take care of it. My friends here are pretty incredible and I am grateful for each and everyone of you. You have filled my life and at a time when I was at my lowest. But like any bar you should walk out when you have had enough life to drink in. Don't make this your everything and wonder why your life is so miserable. Once you can manage your life, this will be what it should be entertainment and a place to socialize.