A bulletin of hers from Myspace -
I know I'm young an naive. Its no excuse for my behavior sometimes though.
I'm very protective of MY things and MY people.
I really don't know where I'm GOING with this blog, but I feel to the need to spill my guts - BlAH
I've come to realize with the help of my girl Nancy (( LOVE YOU )) that you cant control the past, the past is the past and you have to make of it what you will. Whether you like it or not, its something that has happened. You can either let it go, or be a mind control freak and keep yourself down because of it.
Things from someone ELSE'S past shouldn't bother me. Nor should MY past bother anyone else right?
I've now become a firm believer of the following:
The past is the past.
Cut ties with those who DON'T matter, and don't hurt those in the future by keeping the past ALIVE.
" It is what it is " - I, 99% of the time can't stand this phrase for the simple fact, people use it in the wrong manner. ( I just fuck her/him, it is what it is, etc. )
If your romantically involved with someone - its doesn't mean you have to come before EVERYTHING && EVERYONE else.
When someone you love denies you sex / intimacy - they're most likely cheating.
You will NEVER forget your first true love. Stupid little things will make you think of them. Don't tell your current significant other about this, its totally IRRELEVANT - everyone has private thoughts. I also highly doubt your current love wants to hear about how your ex would giggle and wiggle her nose the same way you did, or how he would call you the SAME nicknames.
Being an " attention whore " online is just as bad as doing it in person. It shows very low self - esteem. Get a hobby!
Sleeping with 23823849023904823094 people before getting involved in a relationship IS ok. Regardless girl or guy. We only live once. (this is where the whole PAST IS THE PAST comes in)
Stereotype!- I personally like this one, I will be the very first one to admit I'm a stern practicer of this. If I see a Barbie doll looking girl - I, like the rest of the female fetal world will call her a " HOE / WHORE ". People stereotype me, why cant I do it to them?. I would do it to their face as well.
The line "I cant make you happy unless I can make myself happy" - This line is complete and utter BULLSHIT my friends (Misery loves company, remember that.) I can be completely down and I know I would certainly go out of my way to TRY and make the other person happy REGARDLESS. Its one of the definitions of love - NOT OO BUTTERFLIES IN MY STOMACH WHEN I SEE HIM!!
Theres comes a time... - There comes a time when the partying needs to stop going down EVERY weekend. The occasional shit show here and there is fine. We all deserve a drink ( or bong, or line - whatever you fancy ).
A. There comes a time in your life where you will let ( yes, LET - don't lie and say O I don't mind cuz u KNOW your ass does ) your significant other go out 4x's a week and not worry. No sense in worrying if they're going to cheat. They're going to do it regardless.
B. There comes a time where you will just NOT give a shit about ANYTHING. Try not to make this TOO obvious to your other. It will make them feel less inferior. Also, you WILL no doubt get this thrown in your face... " Well, if you don't give a fuck ... why should I? " Believe me, you better have an EXCELLENT answer as well - the wrong one could change your life forever.
Going on a " BREAK " is the SAME as breaking up. If your on a break - shit, go fuck someone else guilty free. Whats the difference?
Anyhow these are just some of my insights - feel free to add any!
