I really don't know where to start, we all have our own definitions of friendship, that is part of what makes us all unique from each other, we learn to love the characteristics, personality, sensuality, and even find flaws with our friends when we learn more about them. I was always raised to love unconditionally with friends and family it didn't matter if we fought we always worked out our differences and forgave each other.
Some friendships fell on the away side merely from loosing touch with one another. I cherish friendship. I have grown to learn so much from my friends and have tried to be the best friend i possibly could be for them. What hurts the most is when something happens between 2 close friends that left one friend feeling that they couldnt bring himself to talk to the other about what had happened.
They started using avoidance leaving the other friend with no closure and sense of lose as if a piece of their heart left with that friend. The hardest thing to do at this point, is to grant and respect that friend for the way they are feeling. Even though you had to find out through their actions to determine what is happening with the friendship.
Respect it for what it has become and who knows when time passes it may strengthen the friendship at a later date, thats all i can hope for and Hope is a great thing to have when all you feel is a empty hole in your heart.
