RickawayJE's blog: "From me."

I've noticed in my own life, that all too often i get stuck in the friend zone. Either due to my own missed opportunities or cluelessness. Or cause i'm "too" nice at times. I dont know. Quite often it seems I am the first person to come to when there's a problem, or a breakup or whatever. Get told you're the exact type of guy i want, then get overlooked. Dont get me wrong, i'm not complaining about being there for people. I love that actually, I like to help and make a difference. But why doesnt "you're the type of guy that i really want" seem to ever turn into "You're the EXACT guy that i want"? I used to get told that I am too nice to women. I should take advantage of my position, cause breakups or mistrust and use them. but i cant. I like to believe that i'm not that type of person. I.E. if i get asked what i think about someones bf that i like her. I do my best to avoid it, if i cant, i do my best to make ABSOLUTELY CLEAR that my opinion is biased but i'll try to be as objective as I possibly can. And when i turn out to be right, that he really is a douche that is using you for your vagina... yeah i understand that it hurts, but do you not think that it hurts me, caring for you that much, to see you hurt? Knowing full well i'd never make those mistakes, i have in the past but i actually learned. If i wanted pussy i could get it. I'll be honest i'm not bad looking and I'm good enough with words that I can get most women i set my sights on if I really want to. Warstories help too. But i'm at the age and i've done enough in my life, i'm not looking for a lay, i'm hoping for a wife. You dont find a wife in bars 9 times outta 10. You find her by being friends. Good friends. But i seem to lack the little knack for realizing when's the time to move past friends into a relationship. 

I know the perfect woman for me is out there. But so many good women, deserve a good man... why do they not see what they deserve... is sitting right in front of them?