When His Fantasy Is Freaky
Wigging out will shuthim down, so try this instead. Yvonne K fulbright sexologist in new york city.
KEEP YOUR FACE NEUTRAL : A wrinkled brow, mini sneer , or widened eyes will make it seem like you are judging him harshly. If you do wince accidentally, just make a joke of it, like "That's my dirty boy!"
ASK FOR TIME : Lots of sexy things sound weird at first. Instead of acting creeped out or nixing it right off, buy yourself time. Try a line like " I'd never thought about that. Mind if I mull over for a few days?"
MAKE CONTACT: Smile and rub his back or rest a hand on his leg after he drops his booty bombshell. That physical contact shows that you are not recoiling from him, even if you are not crazy about his idea.
SHOW TLC: Be reassuring - not about his fantasy but about his willingness to talk. Say you value how honest he is with you. That leaves the door open for more discussion, when and if you are ready.
Personal opion of my own not person named above:
My opion has always been if it is not pucking or nasty nasty gross then I am open to about just anything as long as it will not harm me or him and it is only me and him. Oh! and immaganation is a wonderful tool to use , we just have to be open and willing to use it.
