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Just saying, but if you are with someone for over a year, and you're constantly telling them that they are not the one you want to live your whole life with, that they are just not what you want, then do NOT get pissed off after you leave them and they find someone else.
Case in point: I lived with a guy from june 2011 till july 2012. He and I were lovers, and roommates. but we weren't bf/gf (his choice). we did EVERYTHING together. shopped, played, traveled, hung out, ate, slept, everything you do with a significant other, but without the label. He always told me he couldn't imagine being with me forever, he wanted something else, that I wasn't the one for him, that I just wasn't his type, I needed to go find someone... blah blah blah. meanwhile, I'm trying to convince him he's wrong. Finally, I help him find a place closer to his kids, and help him move. He seems to be happy with this decision. then he gets all lonely cause he lives alone, and starts telling me how he might have made a huge mistake. I move to florida, and he gets pissed. I talk to him many times a week, because we try to remain friends. I move on. I make new friends, I start dating, he gets mad and depressed. Finally admits to me that he is jealous, and that he hates that I didn't move with him to kentucky (which was not an option to me before, cause he wanted to be with his kids and he wanted to be single... blah blah), that he misses me so much.. I told him back in November that I no longer wanted him, that I gave up. He starts getting clingy. he starts calling every day. I finally convince him to get on POF to find someone, he starts telling me about meeting up with women, and screwing them. I tell him way to go! that's not how he's going to find a wife, but hey, if all he wants is a warm wet hole, more power to him. I tell him about a guy I met up with. I didn't sleep with him. Ex friend gets mad that I didn't sleep with the guy, cause apparently I'm supposed to be as desperate as he is. The guy i meet and I are getting along fabulously, and when the friend wants to know how everything is going, i tell him, he gets very quiet, then hangs up on me,. won't give me straight answers on what's wrong through texts, then calls with some BS question about how to cook a frozen lasagna, ends up berating me for getting along with someone new. so I hang up. He finally sends me a text saying he knows what his problem is, and that he doesn't want to talk to me about it, but I can't telk to him about anyone I date any more. which I'm fine wth, but I'm pretty sure I just don't want to be friends with him anymore. I mean, really... how much is one "friend" supposed to take?
