Sharra's blog: "For your reading enjoyment"

Strong Women Strong women are those who know the road ahead will be filled with obstacles, but they still choose to walk it because it's the right one for them. Strong women are those who make mistakes, who admit to them, learn from those failures, and then use that knowledge. Strong women are easily hurt, but they still extend their hearts and hands, knowing the risk and accepting the pain when it comes. Strong women are sometimes beat down by life, but they still stand back up and step forward again. Strong women are afraid. They face fear and move ahead to the future, as uncertain as it can be. Strong women are not those who succeed the first time. They're the ones who fail time and again, but still keep trying until they succeed!!! Strong women face the daily trials of life, sometimes with a tear, but always with their heads held high as the new day dawns!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for him and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you right, then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think, "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. If something bothers you, speak up. Use discretion and wisdom in what you tell a man about yourself. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are even if he has more education or a better job. Never let a man define who you are. NEVER borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. Compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.. look for someone complimentary. not supplementary. Make him miss you sometimes. when a man always knows where you are and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. All men are NOT dogs

i wish that i could just begin to understand the world within because i find it hard to see the concept of rationality that must exist for to explain the workings of the human brain i see the world through my own eyes but what i see somehow defies as to the way that it relates to the logic that my mind dictates i think it odd that this can be is it them or is it me ?

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AFTER ALOT OF THINKING AND PERSONAL EXPERIENCE IT SEEMS TO HAVE BECOME MY DESTINY....LMAO Looking for a man who lies, cheats and steals...a lot! I'd like to meet someone who is dishonest, lazy, mean, uneducated, unethical and rude. A previous arrest record is not necessary, but would be nice. You should know how to act like a king, preferably a drama king. And not be afraid to talk openly about your feelings, even in a crowded movie theater. You should also be a good communicator, understanding that yelling, screaming and swearing are effective in most conversations. I'd like someone who is open-minded enough to believe that unicorns and leprechauns are real, but also believes that things like hard work, deodorant and exercise are just myths. I like a man who enjoys spending time at the beach, or on long hikes in the woods, as a way to hide from police until "things settle down". You should enjoy a nice evening out shoplifting, or just staying home to cuddle with a nice porn video. And since I'm blind, you should be willing to describe all of the "scenery" in these videos for me. I'm looking for someone who likes to dine out often, who isn't afraid to complain loudly about the food or the service, and maybe sneak out without paying the bill. Or maybe just enjoy a few too many drinks, and argue with other customers. Of course, you should also enjoy a quiet evening at home for a nice romantic frozen dinner as well. I like someone with good values who appreciates the finer things in life, and knows how to get them without getting caught. You should understand the value of a dollar, and not be afraid to take it from someone else when they're not looking. If this sounds like you, or you think I'm serious...please get help! First Date This can go a lot of ways, but anything that ends with a police chase will likely lead to a second date. IS THIS YOU??LMAO NEWS FLASH

* The Succubus is the Temptress from the Abyss, a female demon with the goal to bring about the destruction of the mortal races. They have the ability to polymorph, so they always appear as a stunningly beautiful woman of any humaniod type race (human, elf, halfing, dwarf, etc), with a perfect figure and smooth skin of any color of their choosing, as befits the race they are disguised as. In their true form, their demon heritage is shown in the form of large leathery bat like wings, 2 small horns or wings on their forehead, and sinister glowing eyes. In their true form, they are usually scantily clad, as to try and maintain their hold over their prey, by using their looks to their advantage. * The Succubus race is maintained by the mating of a Succubus and a Balor type demon. If the offspring is female, it is a Succubus, and if male, then it is a Incubus. Offspring from the mating between a Succubus and a human or elf male are known as Tal`zar-Demon. Needless to say, the mortal races frown at the actions of the Succubus, for enough stories have been told that they are the bearers of doom to men. A Succubus tries to use its natural ability to charm a man (saving throw is allowed per each round), and once their victim is charmed, then they try to drain the victim slowly of their life energy (1d8hit points for a life drain, saving throw is in affect, unless the victim is charmed). This energy from a life drain is transferred to the abyss, which helps to somehow maintain the demon race in general, but if a Succubus feels the need to, they can use the energy drained from a victim to heal themselves if neccessary. Since they have wings, they can fly at will, and their keen eyesigh thas gifted them with night vision. * The Incubus is the male counterpart to the Succubus. They appear to females as a strikingly handsome male, with the perfect body, well toned and muscular. They are usually polymorphed in one of he humaniod races so as to blend in and search for females to pray upon. In their true form, their demon heritage is shown by their large horns on thier head, huge bat like wings, large claws, and glowing red or blue eyes. * Incubui are unable to impregnate females because they are born sterile, they are only born through the mating of a Succubus and a Balor Demon, and cannot help to increase their species. * Incubi are hated by the men of the mortal races, and righfully so. The Incubus' main mission is to bring the downfall of the mortal race through the destruction of mortal females. They use their natural ability to charm women (saving throw is allowed per each round) ,so as to drain them of their energy (1d8 hit points for a life drain, saving throw is in affect, unless the victim is charmed) . This energy is used to help maintain the demon race as a whole, although no one has figured out how. * If in danger or hurt, the Incubus can use energy drained to heal himself when needed. They can fly because they have wings, and have night vision. THERE ALL AROUND US!!!!