ok so my friend came to me the other day and she was upset because this guy she really really likes and is friends with doesnt seem to feel the same for her or something like that. she asked me what she could do to see if he likes her for real or not. she was telling me how she will flirt and all that stuff with him and he just wont respond. so i told her that was her problem. see the way men work so i have noticed is they like the attention on them but wont always make that so apparent. guys are weird like that, but it is true. so if there is a guy and hes getting ur attention TRUST me he likes it, but he wont let you know that i guess it damages ego or something lol. BUT if that attention suddenly stops or is shifted to a new person then he suddenly sees u. its the way men are i guess. so anyways here is your advice on that my dear friend if a guy u like is not seeming he likes you stop with the flirts and whatever or shift to someone new if he likes you really then he will come around, if not then he maybe wasnt the one for you dont beat yourself up about it he probably wasnt worth it anyways. the best thing to do is let time and space play its part you cant rush something good.