I lost a daughter once
Could not cry for weeks
Then cried for years
In the middle of the night
Remembering the night I knew she was dying
And the Docs didn't believe me
I was angry about that fact
Until I realized
It would have made no difference if they had
She would die and I knew it
Nothing would change that
Your calamity is very different
No warning
Just shock
Not just HER gone
But a huge part of YOU as well
I can't explain it poetically
I can only be blunt of course
Your road is harder than mine was
So I can only empathize by extrapolation
And tell you that I am here