Adding my weightless comments to the ton of meaningless blathering already out 'here'.
The holidays are here, we're completely broke (as usual) but at least I'm good with the judge, I have a psycho-bitch-from-hell ex-spouse with kids and child support who LOVES trying to put my ass in jail, try divorcing one yourself and you'll know where I'm comin from with that!!
We've recently moved (to Phenix City, AL) and the house is still a mess - but at least I'm 2 1/2 hours closer to the kids (the psycho-BFH ex doesn't like that at all, but screw her - No you do her, I'm Thru!! :) for Lo, these 7 yrs now - and in those 7 years of blissful divorce, her sorry ass has drug me in front of the judge 10 F***g times! She got her the best in legal counsel, tho - cos the first 5 or 6 times were over menial bullshit, that she only got a few hundred dollars in legal fees for, but that was merely the SETUP for the jail time and big bucks to follow!! (watch your Ass, before having kids with these kinds of psychos, all the children Are to her is a Means to keep getting Money out of you, after you catch on to the fact that she's the PSYCHO she hid from you for the first part of your relationship) I might be really stuck on this, but there's a real lesson for you younger guys who might fall into a similar trap. See, the image of the 'welfare-mom' living in the ghetto drawing 5 or 6 checks didn't quite suit My Psycho-Ex's fancy self-concept - but the 'Child-support mom' fit her to a "T") I was the 3rd 'welfare-Child support' dad - the first 2 have finished their sentences with her (the older 2 kids are over 18 - but she sure as HELL chased after them and made them as miserable as she does Me now).. But as I say, I'm Even, she can't say SHIT in court (with any kind of legitimate even menial claim) as to my failing or shortcoming in paying her her damn lifestyle-support - so Happy F***g holiday!
Wow, this DID run on... :) Thanks for reading (if you made it this far) if you are in a new relationship, and starting to see somethings go on that don't add up (like you're always Wrong for being the guy) give me a holler, let me know some more of your symptoms and I'll help ya determine if you found a banshee or not :)
Happy Happy - holidays, Christmas, Hannukah, Kwanzaa - equal opportunity & respect for all cultures!
