Fetishes...!
I did my homework on this topic, because I really didn't know too much about it.
You hear about them, but never really experienced them....
The origin of fetish:
The word fetish originally meant "charm",
and it originates from the 15th century Portuguese word feitico,
which means false power, object or charm.
Fetish (dictionary meaning)
Something, such as an object or a nonsexual part of the body,
that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
Fetish (Dr.Romello's meaning)
person that has a fixation/obsession on a object or body part,
that is needed for them to be/get aroused, in order for them to bust a nut... hahahaa
hmmm. both meanings aren't that far off.. haha
So, exactly what are fetishes?
The fellas are more likely to have a fetish, then females,
due to higher testosterone (sex-driving) hormone levels. HOLLA..haha
Fetishes are developed between the ages of 2 - 10yrs old,
This point that the "we" develop some connection between
an object (silk thongs..haha for instance) and we have an erotic response (a hard on).
In other words, once a strong erotic response is recognized with the connection
of the object or body part, etc..etc then it remains with that person for life...!
(damnn, no wonder you can't trust a big butt and a smile...hahahaa)
Some people aren't sure if they even have a fetish,
while others think that their fetishes are weird.. which is not the case..
Everyone has something that they fixation to..! For instance..
Say when your jerkin off (aka masturbate.. and don't front like you don't
choke your chicken (fellas) or rotate the middle finger (females) hahahaha,
you have to either fantasize about an object or body part, or anything like that.
Then you have a fetish...!
Another example, if you're attracted to brunettes, that's one thing,
but if you are unable to get good wood (hard on..haha) or wet unless you're with a brunette,
then you have a fetish...(and you got issues..haha)
There are many diverse kinds of fetishes, depending on the object is being fetishized.
Inanimate fetishes come in two varieties -- media and form.
In a media fetish, material is what is obsessed over.
may be rubber, leather, latex, or silk...etc..etc
With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object that has great significance.
Stiletto heels, knee-high boots and panties fall into this category.
(some guys love for chics to get butt-naked,
but leave on their "clear heels" (as Chris Rock would say.. hahahaha)
for those that don't know what "clear heels" are.. They are hooker/stripper boots/shoes..
but since I'm a NY'ker, i like it when my chic rocks string thongs with Timberlands on...!
HOLLA.. hahahahaa I'm buggin..
Feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes,
but since these objects are human, they're called "animate" fetishes.
Common fetishes include fetishes focused on shoes, boots, gloves, wigs,
body piercing, underclothing, diapers, or other garments made out of specific materials.
(rubber, fur, spandex, leather, or nylon..etc..etc)
Transvestic fetishism, the fetish of dressing in the clothes of the opposite sex, is also common.
There's mass amounts of fetishes out there, but let's talk about the most common ones..
1. Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex..Us fellas seem to love materials,
it could be the actual feel or smell of it, or just a guy/chic dressin up in that material
or outfit thats addeds a lil extra spice in the bed.. *if you know what I mean* ;-)
Everyone is looking for business man/woman by day, and a freak by nite..
(can I get an AMEN..? hahaha)
2. Feet/hands
You knew this one was coming didn't you? hahaa
Some fellas/females enjoy licking, sucking, kissing, and biting their partner's feet almost exclusively.
Some people simply can't date a person if they have ugly feet or toes.
Now me on the otherhand.. I'm not lickin, kissin or suckin on NO toes..!!!! PERIOD..
I don't care if they are Salma Hayek's toes.. hmmmmm then again..
I'd suck the toe jam off of her toes.. hahahahaa
BUT, any other chic.. hell no..
the only way I would, was if, she washed her toes in hot water,
then bleached them, then washed them again.. Then poured some honey all over them,
then i might lick em.. hahaha
But, I know there's some mofo's suckin and kissin feet/toes out there.. hahaha
*keep on suckin..!* someone's gotta do it..hahaha
3. Role Playin Outfits
Now everyone knows, they thought about or already has already done some role playin..!
Stranger/Stranger -
both meet at a bar, at different times, maybe the girl is wearing a wig to change her appearence.
and they act like they don't know each other.. but then hook up later that nite.. (HOLLA haha)
everyone knows these next 2
- Nurse/Patient *did I hear you say, you have a soar throat.? hahaha*
Cop/law breaker (get out the cuffs, and frisk em baby..! HOLLA haha)
Drug dealer/crackhead.. hahaha I'm buggin..hahaha
4. Domination/submission
Most females dominate and most fellas submit. WHAT..!
(I was shocked when i read this too..!)
A lot of females said they love to order their men around in bed like slaves and spank them,
smack them, and even penetrate them with a strap-on. ---> O hell noooo...
Like you females always say.. it's an EXIT hole, not an ENTER.. hahahaa
Guys, on the other hand, enjoy submitting to women and being told what to do.
(I don't know where these guys are at, but they need to be biiaaatch slapped,
with some baby powder..hahaha)
People can turn anything into a fetish...
There are different degrees of fetishism, from everyday things to so crazy ass stuff.
Which is cool.. If everyone in this world was the same, it would be boring as hell..
Basically, if your fetish interferes with your relationship or your personal life,
seek the help of a professional.. Call Dr.Romello....! haha
Cuz. Dr. Ruth ain't got sh*t on me. hahahaa
ok. that's my column for this week, hope you enjoyed the laughs and info..
stay turn for next week's column.. peace... Dr.Romello
