i have wanted to write this for a long time. many will think i am just rambling on,some will learn from it. fate rules life itself in everything you do. no matter how big or small whatever you do affects everyone. people think that they choose what they do for them. but fate has made you choose. your life is planned out you can not change it. you can alter it but you will end up where fate wants you to be. you may choose a different road but it will always take you to where you are destine to be. you are on a journey to a destination and you can make choices on how you go but never change the end. examples of this is the movie Mr. destiny. he wished he would have caught the ball that would have made him famous instead he was trudging through life feeling miserable. he got his chance and was famous and rich. he thought it would just change his life but it changed everyone. at the end he ended up where he was destine to be. he could not change where he ended up just the roads he took. another example is in 93 i quit a very good paying job why i didnt know really. i met a woman at my new job and we became friends. a year later i got the good paying job back. if i would have never quit that job i never would have met my wife. fate had things in mind for me. 3 years later we married. fate put me on a path and i had things to do. years later, the last 3 years i have tried to get my wife to do certain things so she would stand up for her self. i finally told her i wanted out i was not happy hadnt been for years but fate had a reason i had to stay. it was not time for me to leave .if fate did not have anything to do with it why would i stay in a unhappy,lonely, feeling neglected marriage then for 5 more years? the first month my wife lived in her own place she did what i tried for 3 years to get her to do! fate decides when the time is right. i can think i decided but fate has control of everything. fate brought me here and i do not know why yet but i will. i looked at the link to this place for 3 weeks wondering why. maybe it was to come here and make a few people happy? maybe it was to write this for people to read. fate is a cause and effect. everything you cause to happen effects everyone. i help one person who fell, that effects them and everyone they know. because of my kindness next time they see someone who fell they may think someone helped me i will help them. fate put them there at that time for them to help. there is a greater plan for each person as fate see. if one person gets anything out of this then i have done what i set out to do. think about everything you do and have done think back. when you have made the comment if i only had been 5 minutes sooner or 4 minutes later. fate put you there when you needed to be. thank you for reading. tiny
