well fu-ites here it is THAT day is finally here. ALL that have known me or know me know me for who i am...a fun loving flirtatious (extremely so sometimes). To all i am DVUS and i hope after reading all this ...those of my TRUE friends will remain so and stick by my side. SOME of you already know this but yes I am married and have been so over a year. It is not a fact that has been made actively known to EVERYONE....but some of you do know and know who you are. The reason for this lil "secret" was this the marriage i shared with my wife was one of openness and trust and knowing that no matter what....we loved each other. SOME have noticed the "INFAMOUS HAIR CLIPS" in one of my NSFW files and have pointed this out and through a few split ups and minor probs between me and the wife....that was explained away as the "ex".Welll like a fool i carried on this life even AFTER...BEFORE we were married i discovered my GF at the time having online sex and or phone sex with other guys....that was forgivin and life went on. THEN it happened a second time.....again forgivin and life went on. Then along the way i had my own indiscretions and online stuff that we all know what im tallking about....which was discovered....and forgivin as well...LIFE goes on. WELLLL last night alll came to a break ...when out of a random thought and curiosity i decided to look at the wifes phone. ALLLL to discover she has been doin it again but this time....the is in LOVE with the dude and doesnt know how to let me know included are some nasty pics of her for his viewing pleasure. Long story short....openness has a cost and a price in life if left uncoupled with LOVE.. which i THOUGHT we shared. Now i find i am losing the ONE woman i have given my heart to and committed myself to allll over openness...that incidentally ...NEVER went beyond online for me. I know i will probably loose some of my dearest friends over this and to them i apologize....and to those that stay by my side ...i thank you....As for me i do beleive i am dropping offline til further notice to either get this life in shambles on the right track again....or start a new life. Either way it could be a LONG while. I LOVE YOU ALLL and the times spent with alll of you will be cherished in my heart forever. Those that need more ..you have my cell...call it if you need to...otherwise...i am DVUS....and I bid you alll farewell.
