Ok, you may or may not have noticed; and you may or may not care, but I've eliminated the "Top family" and "Top friends" classifications from my profile.
Yes, I do believe they are evil. That may sound extreme, but hear me out first.
Does it not create jealousy and drama? Would the fu-world not be a happier place if no one was whining (whether out loud or to themselves) about where they rank, or don't rank in someone's family?
Is that what "family" is about?
Is this really a competition?!
Anyone that knows me, knows that I'm pretty forthright about my feelings... I talk about them. I tell people that are close to me how I feel about them.
So I won't play the ranking game...
If we are close, you already know it, I've told you!
If we're not close... Either we just don't hit it off, or we don't know each other that well yet? I don‘t know, I suppose there are many possibilities. Anyway, if you want to change that, let me know... If I want to change it, I'll let you know...
Is it really so complicated?
Now the cynic would be tempted to believe that this might be my excuse to get away with being some sort of player or something... Fuck that! You really don't know me, if that's what you're thinking... Am I charming? Yes, I've been told that. Am I a flirt? Hell yes, I love to flirt! Am I in a serious relationship where I'm hurting someone because I flirt? Noooo.... And anyone that really knows me, knows my heart. I don't play people, regardless of gender, or relationship. I don't do it in business, not with friends, and I certainly don't do it with matters of the heart!
If I left some stone unturned, please tell me and I‘d be happy to address it...
Forgive me, I really didn't put a whole lot of thought into this, it just feels right....
Thanks for reading!
Muah,
Stephen