Preferenced with the mindset I'm happy believe it or not...LOL But....
As man just 31yrs old who has bounced around with several careers and probably stuck in one now for the rest of my life atleast hoping I'm settled in I can't help,but get the feeling that answering the Why's or How Come's that come my way drain me alot of the time.. Confused...
Ok.. Alot of my male friends (not many as not a social guy much after college) I hear make excuses for why they don't make time for their kids,family, and spouse or partner.. I hear them complain about direction or careers. I hear lies about performance with regards to sex or how much..LOL.. But most of all something very interesting to me although most women will suggest men are just as selfish... I never hear another man say how they themselves feel about themselves. It is always who or why something has happened to them... This to me is a focal point in how I live my life in the theory I tried everyday of my life to make people happy or try my best to help others avoid struggle or hardship..Some say I am a push over and too laid back an should be more selfish.. I might try..LOL
But another thing funny to me I hear Women at the same time complain their men are too controling or jealous...Well, Check that off .. That's not me as I'm very open an allow my wife the freedom she desires and often take no joy in building walls or telling her or others that I deserved more..Jealously seems like a effort comparible to Pushing a square peg into a circle hole.Just not worth it..
Women often mock or tease men about lack of ability or endurance with sex...I scratch my head because Sex isn't like sports for guys that learn things at a early age with how to do it right..
Guys will never be good enough although some lucky guys get compliments or hearing "He was soo good or the best I ever had"... Some say good partner's typically will help the not so good..Well, the many so called players or single guys would argue just the opposite..But "Skip,,what does that have to do with you"..
Well, folks teased me about the low sex drive or lack of sex...Guys say man you need help. Some outsiders would ask about cheating or self-esteem. And to answer that is simply, No. That hasn't been the issue. I think mentally my partner after Kid#1 just isn't like she used to be.."So skip what is the point on this???" My point is before being funny or spiteful with regards to men's sex habit or skills think about it.. Women in this area have the most control and are the ultimate judge. So I would like to see women ease up on the "Men are all alike or their dogs who think with their Dicks"... Because as a friends said to me for the trainable men out there often women are to blame..Even mothers...
Whoa..."This is going everywhere SKip"...Yeh, I am venting as I just heard for the 4th time in many months a close friend and his spouse are splitting up..But I'm not sad about the break as sadly I saw it coming years earlier.. I'm upset because both people and why I rambling in this blog had a choice or a part in their situation. What annoys me is that adults(not 15-18/19ers)who I hear day in and day out complain about what they don't have or get just don't appreciate Sheryl Crowe lyric.." It is Not what you don't got, but wanting what you got". That I feel needs to be my personal living slogan...So I don't have enough money, enough sex or passion, alot of friends,the best body, the best job, and obvisiously grammar skills...LOL...
BUT!!!! I do have money I earned, I have sex and appreciate it more as the amount doesn't make it less important or passion based, I got a select few and trustworthy group of friends, I am alive an the body is what I make of it an no one has that control,a job with insurance an paycheck is better then unemployed(been there), and I don't give 3 shits about grammar as you can figure that reading this long Blog... LOL
Well, that all the venting or bambling..
My, only hope is for Guys...Ask questions as to how you can help or change to ease tension if possible or simply be more aware of feelings or objectives of the opposite sex.. For Women, stop kicking in teeth of good guys and falling for idiots or pieces of shit only to learn the guy you think of as only a great friend could be more. We constantly see people stay in relationships out of fear or lack of confidence in themselves. Don't be one or if a friend is one help them as much as you can..
Well, take that Dr.Phil....LOL
Peace Out ,SKIP
