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The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test
The Helper
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.
How to Get Along with Me
Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
Share fun times with me.
Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.
Let me know that I am important and special to you.
Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.
In Intimate Relationships
Reassure me that I am interesting to you.
Reassure me often that you love me.
Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.
What I Like About Being a Two
Being able to relate easily to people and to make friends
Knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
Being generous, caring, and warm
Being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings
Being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor
What's Hard About Being a Two
Not being able to say no
Having low self-esteem
Feeling drained from overdoing for others
Not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
Criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should
Being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tune in to them
Working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings
