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Freeze Tease Why do guys go so gaga when women lick lollipops? Because they're imagining what it would feel like to be that, er, sweet stick. Well, sucking on ice has the same arouse-him effect. At a bar or restaurant, take a slender ice cube entirely into your mouth. Suck on it in a casual way (like you have no idea what the hell you're doing to him), allowing the edge of it to peek out between your lips occasionally. He'll be yelling "check, please" in no time. Stone-Cold Massage Kick-start the frisky festivities with an erotic rubdown, using a hot/cold combo of massage oil and ice cubes. Put a bit of oil in one hand (rub hands together to warm it up) and use it to knead his bare shoulders. Then take an ice cube and run it over the same area. Repeat the pleasurable process as you work your way down his back, finishing off at his butt. The Frosty Figure Eight While you're giving him oral action, use an ice cube to trace a figure eight on his groin or inner thigh. Try to perform both motions at the same pace to make the experience as smooth and seamless as possible. The simultaneous opposing sensations will give him a beyond blissful buzz.

1. A golf course: When on the green, take a time-out for a, er, hole in one. Explore the outskirts of the course for a thunderstorm shelter. These shedlike structures are usually placed in remote areas and, unless it starts to pour, no one's going near them. You may also want to sport a cute little golf skirt to allow for easy access. 2. In front of the fridge: Kitchen carnal action may be nothing new to you, but the icebox might be uncharted territory. Open the door to the refrigerator and have your man sit on the floor with his back against the cool shelves. Then straddle him. Not only will the cold air give you both a thrill (you'll surely perk up!), but you can also incorporate food into your frisky play. 3. A rowboat: Turn an ordinary day by the lake into an erotic excursion. Rent a boat and row it out to a remote area free of people. Once there, get into missionary position — which allows you both to stay low and out of view — and try to make some waves. 4. The hood of your car: You can put a new spin on this classic hookup spot by getting out of the backseat. Spread a blanket on the hood and have an old-school romp under the stars. 5. A farmer's field: Take a little inspiration from the movie Match Point and have sex in the tall grass you see by the side of the road when you're taking a spin in the country. You'll be hidden while you enjoy a roll in the hay. 6. A sleeping compartment on a train: If you've ever wanted to make out in a moving vehicle, a train is the way to go. You'll have to pay a little extra to get your own berth, but you can use the private area as your exclusive passion playground. All aboard! 7. On a hike: To get it on in the great outdoors without having to lie down in the dirt, search for a big boulder you can hide behind so you're not visible from the trail. With your back against the rock and your legs wrapped around your man's waist, you can enjoy standup nooky as well as the scenery. 8. An exercise bench: If your guy has a home gym, use it to work up a sweat. The bench is the right balance of firm and soft, plus it puts you in perfect alignment for girl-on-top sex. Have him lie down, then lower yourself on top of him, using your legs to move up and down.

1. On a hot night, lick the salt off each other's sweaty bodies. 2. Take a steamy shower together...but with the lights out. 3. Stay silent all through the action and just listen to your breathing. 4. Make missionary sex more passionate by wrapping your feet around his lower legs and ankles and pulling up toward him as he thrusts downward. 5. "Spooning has a tame rep, but it's incredibly hot: I can get really deep, play with my girl's breasts and feel her backside buck against my hips. It's total-body pleasure." 6. Sit on his lap totally naked...except for boots. Cowboy boots, stiletto boots, motorcycle boots, whatever — they're so powerful and sexy. 7. The perfect oral-sex technique: Pretend his hard-on is an ice cream cone that's melting quickly. You have to keep licking at different angles, swirling the melting drops upward and putting your entire mouth around the scoop on top. 8. Hold his arms over his head during woman-on-top and nibble the skin between his armpit and elbow. 9. Try standing-up-against-a-balcony sex. There's a reason this booty style is a staple of every porno flick and X-rated photo spread. 10. "I went out with this chick who capped off an oral-sex session by licking the area between my balls and shaft. It was out of this world. In seconds, I was hard all over again." 11. Lie naked against your man, your back to his chest, and encourage him to whisper all of his dirty desires to you. 12. Have him undress you slowly and take the time to kiss and caress each body part as it comes into view. 13. Get your guy to skip the in-and-out thrusts and ask him to "stir" with his penis. He'll stimulate every steamy inch of you. 14. Put a little bit of lubricant on your hands and intertwine your fingers. Then grip your man's penis with your palms and move your hands up and down his shaft. 15. "Let me know you're not wearing panties by taking my hand and placing it under your skirt." 16. "Just as I reach peak, pump my balls in your hand in time with the contractions of my orgasm." 17. Have your guy lie on top of you and enter you from behind, then close your legs so his legs are outside of yours. It's the perfect position for G-spot stroking. 18. Pull off the road and find a secluded spot, then get busy in the car. It's even hotter if you can hear the traffic, because you feel like you might be caught at any moment. 19. Turn on a fan while rubbing him down with ice cubes. The fan makes the ice feel extracold against his skin, and when you put your mouth on his body, he'll get goose bumps from the sudden shivery sensation. 20. Command your man to remain still during doggie-style and move your butt in slow circles.