WHAT I SAID TO MY DADS G/F
i'm sorry about tonight/last night. all depends on when u read this email and thank u for the dinner too!
For me i can't see/like fighting at all. especially with people that he shouldn't be fighting with. He shouldn't be fighting with the people that love him so much. he should be protecting instead.
The only way i know how to get him to stop fighting with people is to get him to go against me and that is it. i've been doing this for as long as i can remember. i'm so use to it! Which is sad though. b/c really no one should ever be use to doing that ever. but i am.
He should be lucky to have someone that really loves him. It would be nice to have that too. but my time will come for that. (maybe)
I'm the only kid that talks to him and see him out of the 4 of us and i'm the one that gets into fights with him.
if u don't hear from me in awhile u know y. i'm going to stay low and quiet for awhile. b/c i don't need this and i don't want to get into another fight with him at all. I know that fighting never gets u anywhere in this life of ours. so i'm going to do the right thing and stay away for awhile. more then likely it is for the best.
if u still want me to do the scrapping of the windows. i will do that. i'm not worried about the money at all. i don't mind helping out when help is needed. but after that. i'm going to leave and not say a word at all while i'm there. so this way nothing will be said from my end!
if u can tell i was thinking about this while i was on my way home from ur place.
****Jason,
You truly are a wonderful, very bright, handsome young man and in the short time I have known you, I have come to admire your wisdom and your temperament.
No pressure, and I will understand, but may I have your cell number to talk to you briefly. I promise it won't be an attack on your dad.
Marisa
ME:
how did it go yesterday? i thought u would've sent me something on how it went. i hope it went good and not the other way. i don't like thinking negitive. i do want to think positive instead. :D
HER:
Sorry Jason, yesterday was so hectic with personal issues that I've been working very hard to get on top of things today.
Fortunately your dad was quite humble and quiet. I told him I was leaving for the viewing and that I would be back afterwards as Jamie had called and asked if I could help him move the last of his personal belongs from his house. Your dad asked if I could use his help and I told him it was much appreciated.
As usual, your dad worked very very hard and after 3 car loads we finished around midnight -- so to answer your question, yes, it was positive.
I am so very glad you guided me yesterday because I could have made a very big mistake without your input. Thank you!
Eventually I know we will get around to discussing the scrapping of windows... so we'll be in touch soon.
Any chance of the Oster family joining the Soulis family for Thanksgiving dinner on the Monday? Believe it or not, we do have a lot to be thankful for. So many other families are worse off than we are.
With love,
Marisa
* THE OUT COME OF THE STORY IS THAT MY DAD AND HIS G/F R STILL TOGETHER CAUSE OF WHAT I SAID/GUIDENCE TO HER AND FOR THAT SHE IS VERY GREATFUL FOR IT. SHE TOLD ME ON THE PHONE THAT I SHOULD GO FOR BEING A GUIDENCE COUNCILER IN RELATIONSHIPS.
FOR ME I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD CAUSE I'VE BEEN OUT OF SCHOOL FOR OVER 10 YRS NOW AND IF I GO BACK I PRETTY THINK I WILL THINK I KNOW MORE THEN THE TEACHERS.
WHICH IS NORMALLY THE STORY. LOL.
BUT AS OF RIGHT NOW I AM GOING TO HELP OUT PEOPLE AS MUCH AS I CAN WHEN I'M ABLE TOO!
