Alright, just want to let off some steam and see if anyone else could possibly be a silly and stupid as me!
Why do we as humans seem to have to learn things the hard way? I mean why can't we decide that life is hard enough to just get through each day without having to have things come to us again and again? It would seem that I tend to keep doing the same things over and over and while I think I am a smart person am starting to believe that maybe I should look at that and rethink it.
I think I would like someone to do things for me. I am a nurturing giver all the time, and so I tend to just get into that mode and don't even think about it until it hits me upside the head that maybe it is time for me to just stop. I tend to take over and do everything for the people I love. Which for them is a good thing as they pretty much can do what they want then. The problem is I get hurt, and start feeling like I am being used. I don't have to be this way, I can choose to have relationships that are bothing giving and taking (don't get me wrong, there is usually giving, only it gets a little onesided and I give more than I take). So right here and now I am stopping! NO more doing everything so that others can do what they want, I am worthy of having someone do things for me so that I have free time to do as I please.
