I was in the mumms earlier..and a mumm was posted.. what the whole point was I cant remember but I do remember that it was written by a bigger woman (no disrespect intended).
Now because this woman was big, a comment was made to her about "doing a sit up or two" to help her attract the right kind of man.
Now.. I am a big woman.. always have been. I am not ashamed of myself.. and those that know me will understand where I am coming from.
Just because a woman is big, does NOT give a man the right to hit her.. assume she is desperate.. or assume that she has low self esteem.. shit happens people.. sometimes we ALL attract the wrong type of people..
Now the comment was explained to me that it "is a proven fact doing sit ups helps you feel better about yourself"... so if this is the case.. someone PLEASE explain to me why no one ever tells a thin woman who attracts assholes to "do a sit up or two"... why is it assumed that only big women attract the assholes.. or somehow deserve it..
this is where I get angry...
DO NOT assume because I am big that I am not confident in myself..
DO NOT assume because I am not a size 6 that I am desperate for male attention..
DO NOT assume that because I am big that it is because I have low self esteem
and by all means DO NOT assume that because I am big that I have low standards in a partner..
DO NOT assume that because I am big that I dont feel good, or I am not healthy..
DO NOT assume that because I am big that I dont have feelings or I am not a good person..
DO NOT assume because I am big that I cannot love just as well as the size 6 woman of your dreams..
and DO NOT assume that because I am big I should be thankful that you MR PERFECT (in your eyes) have shown some interest in me..
Remember one thing.. everyone has faults.. and the only perfect person is a dead one..
so many people talk about Karma.. well remember that..
The greatest gift people recieve is to be loved by another truly and honestly.. not for what they look like.. not for the job they do..
You place too much value on the cover of a book you may be disappointed in the outcome..
