mysterious's blog: "this and that"

"If you don't have a car and you're walking
Oh yes son I'm talking to you
If you live at home wit' your momma
Oh yes son I'm talking to you

If you have a shorty but you don't show love
Oh yes son I'm talking to you"

Deadbeat dads really bug me. If you can't pay your child support you will not get attention from me. You don't know what your child goes through when you don't pay. You are not "punishing" your ex( or baby's momma), you are ensuring your child goes without the basics. Clothes, food and even shelter. Sometimes the little bit you pay helps get the bills paid and puts a roof over your childs head and sometimes is the difference between going hungry and failing in school because you cannot concentrate on anything but your rumbling tummy and excelling.

My father was a dead beat. High powered attorney who didn't pay a dime. I got clothes from the thirft store, got a part time job at age 11 doing yard work and washing dishes so I could buy MYSELF new clothes and eat lunch at school everyday. It was horrible.

My son is now almost 10 and his father is a deadbeat. Works 40-60 hours a week, lives at home with mommy and doesnt pay a dime for anything. His license has already been suspended, tx refund withheld, and his employer was sent the forms to withhold a part of his pay but they refuse. Its sad. His father doesnt call or even try to talk to my son, no gifts or cards for his birthday, nothing... not even from that side of the family..even his grandmother doesnt even call. No wonder my son hates them.

 My son had his bike stolen from the school and there are no funds to replace it. Had his father been paying his child support I could buy him a new bike but now... I just don't know how I am going to do it. 

If you don't have a car and you're walking
Oh yes son I'm talking to you
If you live at home wit' your momma
Oh yes son I'm talking to you
If you have a shorty but you don't show love
Oh yes son I'm talking to you