1.Ego: for thinking you are more then you are, will give you a blinded sight.
2.Lust : thinking with the wrong head will make the blood flow to the wrong brain.
3.Self doubt : it makes you look like a fool, which you are not! Just not educated in that.
4.Enthusiasm: fools rush in with out thinking.
5.Manipulation: changing one or a situation for your wants can make you lose what attracted you in the first
place.
6.Influences: letting others influence your thought and actions to stay in favor with your friends
7.Fore sight : not being able to see things thru and being blinded by the moment
8.Anger : for this will blind one with emotions
9.Opinions: opening ones mouth to speak your thoughts can back fire even in its truest form
10.A closed mind: with all the people in the scene, there are many cultures and ideas to what BDSM is,
and every ones kinks are different. not accepting this will bring one to a narrow path.